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When You Stay because You Fear Death!

Sam Vaknin is the author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" and 8 other books about personality disorders and abuse in relationships with narcissists and psychopaths. He is the owner and moderator of support forums and the first person to have written about the Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD) online (in 1997). He invented many of the terms currently used to describe the disorder and its effects on family, the workplace, and in various professions.

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When You Stay because You Fear Death!

Postby surviving » Sat Mar 14, 2015 2:45 pm

Dear Dr. Vaknin,

I have been married to a man with NPD for 10 years. I have gotten an STD from him and I undergo various forms of abuse daily, except severe physical, because of his very high standing in society.

Your book has helped me greatly, but I have a question for you. What about those of us who are forced to live with these monsters not because we "Insist on Staying" but because if I leave, I will be killed, my children will be killed , family members will be killed and then maybe he might just turn the gun on himself.

How do I cope with the mental insanity of wanting to be free and knowing that once he is alive that I can never be?
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Re: When You Stay because You Fear Death!

Postby samvaknin » Thu Apr 02, 2015 4:33 pm

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