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eyeswideopen · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 212

I stubbled across this website the other evening. One of the articles consists of many questions to consider when faced with this decision. I found it very helpful, so I thought I would share it. It is a Christian website, however I believe these priciples can be applied to all of us.

Cutting Ties- Knowing When It's Time To Walk Away- Part 2
http://www.altrue.net/site/luke173/content.php?type=1&id=10245
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Cookie1 · Guest

I LOVED the info(storys) on this site! Having the smear campaign done on me by the p these storys all rand sooo true....Made me totally realize that it isnt me but the other peoples problem Laughing

TY for putting this up Exclamation

mutlover · Posted: Tue Feb 27, 2007 7:11 am Post subject:

Eyeswideopen,

Thanks for this website - It is very informative - wow that is quite a list of issues - looks like it covers about everything.. The books that were referenced, Divorcing your parents, and the power of apology were written by Beverly Engle, the same person that wrote "the emotionally abused woman". evidently her expertise is women in abusive relationships. She herself was in the situation with her mother and writes from first hand experience.

mutlover · Posted: Tue Feb 27, 2007 7:17 am Post subject:

Cookie,

LOL - We couldn't send them all to the moon because they would all fight each other over who is going to pilot the space ship (although none had them knew how, none would admit it. Once they had finally either killed one other trying to leave earth, if they got lost in space, no one would stop to ask for directions and they would end up in another galaxy -

on second thought.......

(I worked for years with men in a predominately male industry. I always thought I liked men better than women as a rule (I had all brothers and was a tomboy) until then. I certainly wouldn't lump the entire sex into the category but .... pretty close.

justmee · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 692

Thankyou so much for this link. It has helped me so much, I always thought I was a bad child for not obeying....

thanks alot!!!
justmee

eyeswideopen · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 212

Justme.. I can relate to that. We were brainwashed to obey.. under all circumstances. Truth is ~ we don't HAVE to have contact with someone who is abusive.. regardless of who it is. It really is that black and white. All of grey areas are the N fog that is beginning to lift.
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"The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?"
Kahlil Gibran

survivormomoftwo · Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Posts: 311 Location: USA

Love that link! Thank you for sharing....
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whyness · Joined: 09 Mar 2007 Posts: 102

Thats a great site, I'm not into the Christianity part, put even with that, she seems to pick out appropriate verses that fit into the various articles she had there and I don't get her coming off as being preachy, at least so far from what I have read.

Some great articles, I loved her usage of the term 'Miss Budinski'

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OxDrover · Joined: 13 May 2007 Posts: 1465 Location: Arkansas USA

Thanks, Eyeswideopen, I sent this URL link to 5 different friends that needed it (only 1 has been here to this forum)--thank you very very much. (((hugs)))) for sharing.
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