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What do they think when they are caught in a lie?

 
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shyler



Joined: 27 Jan 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 5:06 am    Post subject: What do they think when they are caught in a lie? Reply with quote
During the relationship with my ex-bf, I once drove by his house and saw a Ford Escort station wagon with an infant seat in the back parked in front of his house. He explained it away the next day saying that he had picked up some extra cash by repairing it. He knew how to work on cars, so I thought that was a reasonable explanation.

A few months later the subject of that car came up again and he gave a completely different story. I immediately got upset because I knew that wasn't what he had told me before. I told him that his story didn't match up. He informed me that either we drop it or we were breaking up. He basically said that he wouldn't tolerate me not believing him. He had no feeling for how hurtful it was to me.

I still can't believe that I put up with it and how cold he was about it. It has always bothered me.

What are Ns thinking when they know they are caught in a lie?
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samvaknin
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Joined: 15 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 4:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
They think nothing of it and move on to the next lie.

The Narcissist and Psychopath as Criminals

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/5003

The Narcissist is Above the Law

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4983

The Narcissist as Liar and Con-man

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4951

Take care.

Sam
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