Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Sailor2bill · Joined: 21 Feb 2007 Posts: 204

I've really picked this up from Superheromom's thread so I apologise to her. She mentions her D7 going through her things and 'spying' on her. I have not heard this being mentioned here before but it is something to be very aware of! You can see what's happening to Superheromom but a very similar thing happened to my D during her (endless) divorce. Her eldest boy, then about eight was manipulated and pressured and bribed by the N into going through all of my D's divorce file which was simply kept in a drawer in her house. S8 simply passed on important papers together with photos which incriminated N, straight on to N. My D only found out about this when it became very clear that N had 'inside' information, and of course the items were missing. Everyone here knows how manipulative and persuasive an N can be, so what chance does a young child have? My D has never mentioned to her son (now 15) what she knows went on but of his own accord S15 no longer wants to have anything to do with N.
Moral: keep everything you have under lock and key and do not think for one moment that even N would not manipulate his own children for his own ends. Be very careful about what your children see and hear, they will see no harm in chatting to N dad about it as he milks them for information.
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Summer · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 902

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