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VOCATIONS?

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VOCATIONS?

Postby dutchgal on Sat Feb 17, 2007 8:45 pm

Seems to be MANY N lawyers - care to share your N's vocation?
(Mine - divorce lawyer in Chicago)
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Postby MiSS NJ on Sat Feb 17, 2007 8:57 pm

SLIMEY politician ....... LOL

its not a joke ...

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Postby LosingTheUser on Sat Feb 17, 2007 9:10 pm

Full time N.

Has an auto shop but N-ever goes there. That's work and he doesn't.
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Postby Legend on Sat Feb 17, 2007 9:19 pm

Physician - You know the type. "I am God."

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Postby runningfree on Sat Feb 17, 2007 9:59 pm

Physician. Peeerrrrfffeeecccttt career for a narcissist to be able to fully exploit people. Mine exploited everyone from his secretary to the janitor. He was just in a more "socially acceptable" position to do it, i.e. "let's help the doctor." :evil:
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Postby lolacat on Sat Feb 17, 2007 10:06 pm

mine works in the movie/film industry, he also has his own business. his occupation is perfect b/c he has access to a constant new supply. with every commercial or movie set he on he picks a new one but when the show is ove he is gone-his words-"these bitches do not get it" unbelievable!
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occupation-teacher

Postby oaktree on Sun Feb 18, 2007 12:22 am

mine is a retired teacher. she loved the control she could have over those little minds. (special ed) she often verbally abused and manipulated their parents too.

she had lots of practice as she was trying out all of her methods on me when I was 3-4 and she was 19-20, and then did it to her own 3 boys before using her degree.

heaven help those who were in her path those 20+ years! I used to hear her brag stories and cringe!!!
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Postby vinblanc on Sun Feb 18, 2007 12:32 am

Lawyer....need I say more? :wink: Guess that isn't fair to non N lawyers. There are some very nice, caring and ethical lawyers out there... exnh was not one of them. :(
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Postby vinblanc on Sun Feb 18, 2007 12:59 am

Lawyer....need I say more? :wink: Guess that isn't fair to non N lawyers. There are some very nice, caring and ethical lawyers out there... exnh was not one of them. :(
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Postby WindSong on Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:07 am

Washed up has been musician with only the talent to do knock offs of real musicians.

He even mimics music. Like they mimic emotions and caring feelings. He could sound like others really well, but for doing his own stuff- he was an idiot without much taste or creativity. LOL
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Postby stillsmilen on Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:55 am

A Paramedic, who saves peoples lives and then turns around and talks horribly about them afterward. Often making fun of them. Thinks he's God's gift to the world....
I could go on & on!!!!!

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I made him very sorry that he chose me as a victim!!!
He may have knocked me down, but I got right back up... And kicked his a**!!
(metaphorically speaking ofcourse, but if he hadn't gotten the PPO, I probably would have done it literally too!!)
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Postby Dizzygirl on Mon Feb 19, 2007 2:56 pm

Windsong wrote:
Washed up has been musician with only the talent to do knock offs of real musicians.

He even mimics music. Like they mimic emotions and caring feelings. He could sound like others really well, but for doing his own stuff- he was an idiot without much taste or creativity. LOL



Ditto Windsong. Mine is a musician too, but he does covers and tributes. He is so wrapped up in the whole thing though and shows real hatred towards other tribute acts/musicians who he deems to be better than himself. While at the same time he idolises an American rock singer to the point of kidding himself that he is the famous guys friend....even though he has never met him! :shock: :roll:
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Postby jomo20071 on Mon Feb 19, 2007 5:06 pm

civil engineer
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Postby StillSad on Mon Feb 19, 2007 5:19 pm

My N owns a shoe shop, but the way he acts, you'd think that he owns a shopping mall!
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Postby mommybunny1 on Mon Feb 19, 2007 5:25 pm

"Business consultant"...to doctors. He calls doctors the dumbest smart people that people he ever met. This is probably true considering that I am a physician and he destroyed my family, my home and my practice.

My simple N-free life came at great expense.
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Postby light on Mon Feb 19, 2007 7:14 pm

deleted or attempted anyway
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vocations

Postby debra on Mon Feb 19, 2007 9:17 pm

Mine was a college grad, passed the Series 7 test and is working for the highway department picking up road kill, filling pothols and directing traffic. Also, I understand he went to college for FREE because his dad taught there. What colossal waste...................
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Postby sunny on Tue Feb 20, 2007 5:50 am

Mine works in the high tech field in sales, and is also a musician/conductor.
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Postby kat on Tue Feb 20, 2007 6:35 am

mine does odd and end jobs for a lady that has kept him busy for almost a year now. she owns several businesses and he is her handyman. Its nothing more than hard labor, fixing stuff, running errands, and helping out where she points him to go.

To hear him tell it, he is the "manager" and runs things for her. He gossips between employees and loves to spread the gossip. (she said their nickname for him is "carrier pigeon" because he gossips so much). He gets up at 5am because it makes him feel important. He thinks people that rise early are the "good people". he goes to bed about 8:00pm. I think this schedule is best for him because he has no interpersonal skills and the entertainment and restaurant industry is better off if he is not patronizing their facilities in the evenings.

He told her about a week ago that he was going to run into a bunch of money and would never have to work again, but since he just likes working for her so much, he was going to continue to work for her after he gets rich. (ain't gonna happen....delusional)

His boss is my former cousin and we speak regularly about him and laugh and laugh.
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Postby Man_Qld on Tue Feb 20, 2007 6:56 am

Pharmacist assistant still is as far as I know. Was when I saw her.

A captive audience. Working behind a counter. Dispensing medication. Above the other women she worked with because she actually handled the drugs. Was the best looking, manicured and immaculately dressed. She was #1. Sporty little car. Personalised number plates. The lot.
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Postby Chipper on Wed Feb 21, 2007 5:18 am

Cop, just retired after 30 years. Can we say TONS of NS..why yes we can! I found out about OW last Oct, and there on his computer was a pic he emailed her of him 30 years ago in his uniform (roll eyeballs). Good grief...he's now paunchy and 30 years older...guess he hasn't figured that out yet.

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Postby lynniekinns on Wed Feb 21, 2007 5:23 am

Drilling rig supervisor. rus a big operation in the oil patch, has many people under him.
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Occupations of you know who???

Postby Gina on Wed Feb 21, 2007 7:31 am

Hi,
I thought they were lazy and didn't work, but from all the posts I've read there isn't "narrie a one" that doesn't work. And they sound like they all have good jobs. What's the deal? Are we confused about them? Are they really not lazy?
:roll: :shock: Love,
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Postby natman2 on Thu Feb 22, 2007 5:23 pm

She is a highly talented alternative healer but really wants to teach because she needs to be above everyone else. They all need to look up to her.
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