Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

happyalone · Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Posts: 79

HI all, I wrote my first post here a few weeks back, about how I"m stronger and all the wiser now, after "him". I was just reading through some of your posts, and I remember how the trauma of the pain , confusion, shock, and hurt felt. Now that I'm "through the storm", a couple things have happend now, and it all follows the logic of all the information I have gained on here, on the N site, and that wonderfull book that changed my life.
It's been over a year, and now my phone is ringing again, I know it's "him". He calls from his cell phone, listens to my machine greeting, and hangs up. The times of the calls is what mostly gives him away, lunchtime, dinner hour, and late at night (poor baby is alone..)
When he dumped me over a year ago, he went back to the ex, but now I hear she's hightailed it out of town, and dumped him!!
I just found him on match.com about a month ago, and you guys, his profile was excatly OPPOSITE of who he really is. The perfect interent predator, so this is what I did (I was a member also) I emailed him,
three times, and basicly, told him excatly what he was, that I knew it,
and I would always stand up to him, and stand for the truth. If I ever knew him to hook up with anyone else, I would always support them when he ultimately destroys them.
HE quit match!!! He sees me on the road, and pulls over, I told him go ahead, I'm driving right by, I don't care!!
So, the moral of this story ladies, and men, when you do get your power back, do not ever let them touch you again! Now that he's alone
lonely, and sad, he's thinking of him, obviously, and now the shoe is on the other foot, ya!!! There are moments when I think I miss him, and wonder, what if I talked to h im?? But then, comming back here, reading all that it would turn out again, the pain, and worse, I revel in this
new found happiness, and self empowerement, and my revenge has now become reality, I"m happy, and he's all alone.
So be it,
stay strong everyone, we are worth so much more than these cowards will ever deserve!!!
happyalone

WindSong · Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 12:55 pm Post subject:

Hi Happy,
I'm going to move your post to the "Life after psychopath" board later on after I have given you time to see this message. This is a wonderful post and great for newbies to read because it shows that there is life after the psychopath!
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happyalone · Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Posts: 79

Hi Windsong, yes, right after I posted this, I realized it was in the wrong place, so thankyou. I"m fifty one,and this relationship was the worst of the worst, but in a very odd way, it taught me the most about what I needed to know, about myself.
so, if I can offer positive thoughts to anyone else, I so understand the pain and confusion.
The N site gave me my life back like never before, and I"d like to give back whatever I can,
thanks, sorry I posted in the wrong section,
I also put a couple of poems, I love to write,
take care,
happyalone