Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

I hate my mother and father. Tehy are just like every detail you read, I hate them so much. I can't even go into it. And they're extended families too, fuck'em.

I am a a male so I may be a little different. I am 24 year old guy. And i fmy parents did shit to me that minde did to me, that is truly fucking torture man. That is just straigh torture, what they do to us is unreal, and they get away with it becasue society lets em. You can cross all so called stigmas allegedly in society with the 16 and pregnent shows, obscene material everywhere not protected from children, talk about aids preventions. But NP mind control, manipulation, nope it's back to 1800's Victorian stigmitization, in my experience

The problem w/ the N parent is that when people give birth to kids, they take the kids home and then raise them. When there are psychologically sick, broken people, there is NO ONE there to protect the child. The parents are suppose to, in this society protect their off-spring. When the PROTECTOR is the PERPETRATOR what the hell is the child to do?? The child is defenseless and at the mercy of sick, unbalance, emotionally/spiritually bankrupt parents...Karma comes in full swing when the parents age and need someone to care for them..
The reality often times is that many children of N parents are in denial..they continue to seek approval from these sick people and refuse to acknowledge how sick and demented they are. This causes rifts between the sibs and further isolation of children who have had to all ready endure the pain of being raised by N parents. Being the child of 2 N parents myself, i think one of the hardest things is that the N parents refuse to acknowledge the personal hell they but their own children through. In order to come to terms w/ our lives and move on we have to "be okay" w/the fact that we will NEVER get so much as a minor apology/acknowlegdment for suffering YEARS and YEARS of torture and abuse bu the people who our society trusted our care to.

GEB,

Congrats for the realization at 24. I'm 47 and just coming to terms with it.

It's frustrating, heartbreaking, mind-boggling. You feel like you are going insane.

Take a deep breath. It gets better.

I had no idea until I left home and got married in my teens - then people started telling me. I knew something was wrong, but I couldn't articulate it - it was all I had experienced in my "home". But it wasn't like that at other people's homes. So I stayed away as much as I could. Everyone was always trying to help me, but no one ever told me there was anything wrong with her. My grandmother obviously spent her entire life trying to hide it from me and everyone. I spent most of my teenage years in counseling, and the results were always the same - there was nothing wrong with me per se, but was very mature for my age. But no one ever even tried to talk to me about what was really going on at home - it was all very basic - you got into a fight, why? Why doesn't she like your friends? Hell, I didn't realize she didn't like my friends because they liked me! She still gets so angry when people like me.
I'm glad you realize what you are dealing with. It helps a lot.