Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Rachelle · Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2007 1:48 am Post subject: Suicide and end of supply

Hi Dr Sam

Firstly thank you for your help in the past.

The exN in my life has pushed me further and further to my breaking point, and at times have been so depressed that I consider doing things to end it all. I am getting help for this so hopefully this is a phase that will soon pass.

My question is, would the Narcissist care if anything happebned to their supply, or do they have any understanding of their role in why people react the way that they do to things that he/she has done?
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samvaknin · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 2186

If you are his only source of reliable supply, then of course he cares if something happens to you. You are like an expensive car or a very advanced computer or a prized collection. It hurts to lose such possessions.

If you are not his exclusive or prefrred source of supply, he won't dedicate a second thought your demise. He is merely likely to be annoyed with your inconsiderateness for choosing to die on him.

Question:

Doesn't the narcissist ever feel sorry for his "victims"?

Answer:

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The narcissist's positive emotions come bundled with very negative ones. This is the outcome of frustration and the consequent transformations of aggression. This frustration is connected to the Primary Objects of the narcissist's childhood (parents and caregivers).

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http://samvak.tripod.com/faq33.html

Question:

Should the narcissist be held accountable for his actions?

Answer:

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http://samvak.tripod.com/faq71.html

Question:

Do narcissists feel guilty and if so, do they ever repent?

Answer:

Continue to read this article here (click on this link):

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq57.html