Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Today my ex had to give me and my girl a ride to her ballet. On the way home, he stopped at the gas station. It was fine...honestly. We dont talk. Right now my car is broke, and I cnat go anywhere. So I asked him to help.

While at the gas sstation, I noticed a card with about 6 of my family members names on it. Iconfronted him about it. HE said it was bc he was wondering where our daughter was. I had pulled over nights as he is still partying and gettign hurt while partying...still the same guy. PLus I dont trust a partier around my child...

Three weeks ago he attacked me verbally said my family was sick of my shi*t and tired of me etc...it really upst me that he would say that, and i chalked it up to his stupid rants. I have not talked to my fmaily about him in a year. I have no intentions of it either...one sister taht he talked to I havent even talked to in a year. Anyways turns out he actually talked to my fmaily. I have no idea what was said. I have taken the approach that I will not talk to my fmaily about him at all, and I have made that clear. They dont see it like I have lived it. The only way that he got those numbers was from my parents. Not a single person told me he talked to anyone. IT was crushing. But I am still sticking to the no talking about him to any of my family. I feel very disappointed in my family. I dont think they know what they said behind their backs. I dont even care to defend myself.

Funny thing, afgter ballet he said to me..."how come I can fool everyone about what an A-hole I am, but not you..why?"

But this is a really long battle that I am gettign really tired of.