Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

duvet · Joined: 01 May 2008 Posts: 1

Hi, my name is Jon and I am currently living with my psychopathic grandmother(I am 16). She is a pathological lier and seems to make it her lifes work to destroy the lives of other people. She also has a history of other mental illnesses such as manic depression and bipolar disorder and is quite possibly dangerous in a physical sense. In the past she has injured herself in an attempt to get her husband arrested for abuse, wrongfully had her daughter(my mother) institutionalized as a teenager, Hid me from my estranged father(she intercepted his mail to me and would reply pretending to be me so that he would send child support that she then cashed while at the same time telling me he was a bad person and abandoned me without a care). as a child she attempted to MURDER(a psychologist warned their parents to never let her within 10 feet of the crib again) her baby sister and I also suspect she molested her son(my uncle). It would take days to describe all the pain she has caused people.

My family has long let her destructive behavior go unchecked but recent events have made me realize i HAVE to stop her before she ends up killing someone. She has now stolen a gun from another family member and has it and some ammunition she found with it stowed away somewhere. I am scared she will eventually lose it and shoot someone. I tried to find the gun but had no luck.

I have decided the safest thing to do is to try to get her arrested(besides stealing the gun I also suspect she has stolen thousands in fraud/tax evasion. Can someone please give me some advice i'm in desperate need of help. Is there ANY way i can contact the police with what i suspect without her finding out, I'm worried she is going to lie her way out of this like everything else, trace it back to me and get revenge.

The sickest thing is I feel like I'M the bad person for plotting to have her thrown in jail but I honestly believe someone is going to end up dead if I don't stop her.

I guess the bottom line is I would like legal advice on how to get her arrested. We live in california so luckily there are some tough gun control laws and i am hoping she can be put away for unregistered/unlicensed ownership of a handgun(easier to prove then the tax evasion/fraud). She is also addicted to benzodiazepines ; and goes through about 1 1/2-2 bottles of lorazepam(sp) a week which i believe she obtains online.

I know I sound like a vindictive person but please understand I Hold no ill will towards my grandmother but i could not live with myself if she maims or kills someone with that gun. I've considered trying to find the doctor who originally wrote the prescription for the psychiatric drugs she is on to have her put in a hospital but chances are he is wrapped around her thumb like so many others.

Did not know where else to turn,

Jon