Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Kathryann · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 72

I had 3 months of NC, and my ex contacted me and I talked to him. Well, I guess it was really for the better. He's crazy, seriously. He contacted a friend of mine and asked for my number, he called me and I said no. He said he really needed to talk to me, so I e-mailed his work, and told him to contact me at a different number and leave a message if it was important. He did and left his number, so I called him, only to be of course hurt again. He really didn't have anything important to say, blew me off, said it was a LONG time ago that he was trying to contact me, and the lies go on and on and on. So, thank God he can't contact me anymore, and thank God I'm away from him, he's crazy. It's like a total mind game, the thing I did realize was I'm glad I'm alone and away from him, nothing's changed, he's still using drugs and doing what he does, I think he just wanted to make sure I was still around in case he needed someone. He made this comment, I thought about you the other day, OMG we were together for 6 years, and he momentarily thought about me, how sick.

Kathryann · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 72

P.S. I also have to say that I think it was a blessing that I did talk to him AFTER reading the posts on this board, and having all this support. My eyes were wide open to what he was saying and doing, and for the very first time I didn't fall for it. I'm getting on with my life.

Kathy

Nolongerhisvictim · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 1380

K,
Kudos for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are doing great! I don't recommend anymore contact with him in the future though...not healthy for you...KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!! Glad you are able to realize his tactics now.

NLHV
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Cookie2 · Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1378

Lies lies lies huh Kathy Question

He just is looking to keep you(supply) on a string...so he can find you when HE wants to....remember...It's ALL about THEM Embarassed

He thought about you Embarassed

hmmmm....what....wondering if you'd be around when he want you to be? Or possibly he was SURE you would be.....or possibly doing something you did in the bedroom? They never say HOW they thought about us...Just that they did....mine I have NO DOUBT was thinking about my death Embarassed

Your doing GREAT Kathy...Keep up the good work Laughing

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I have a photographic memory....I just don't have same day service.....................Cookie

Kathryann · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 72

Thanks everyone - I am doing SO much better since the last conversation I had with my Ex-P Husband, I have not had the desire to contact him, I just keep seeing how sick he really is. I'm lonely, but not THAT lonely anymore. How can you tell if a P is lying, every time he's moving his mouth (hahahaha).

Love to All Who Have Helped Me,

Kathy

Cookie2 · Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1378

Kathy....I always wondered just how lonly one would have to get to want a p in their life Laughing

Im not sure I will EVER be that lonley....EVER Exclamation

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Nolongerhisvictim · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 1380

I just want to share this with you: If you are lonely, I found the best cure for that is to reach out to others....It helps me.

NLHV
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