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Clueless1 · Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 138

My big dumb P showed up on my door step today. While I was out side. I had kids at the house and all that. He says again, Confused

"I never cheated on you and I never hit you. Don't that mean anything?" Surprised

Now I know a lot of you ladies have really had it much worse than me. I have to say my Gosh, why do they think we have to put up with absolutely insane behavior just because they don't beat us. Rolling Eyes

Anyway, says he will have to be staying in the boarder state to us now. and some things have happened that WERE NOT GOOD Rolling Eyes

and he will have to be back to wghere he is staying every evening or something like that, sounds like he may have gotten into a bit of trouble Shocked

pinkybubbles · Guest

Legendary werewolves supposedly only emerge at the full moon.

How strange- A friend of mine who works in A&E hates the full moon because all the nutters come out 3 days within a full moon!!!! Date of the next full moon? March 3rd!!!!

My ex N turned up yesterday and a friend who has been in a DV relationship called me frantic last night, her ex had turned up!!!! Coincidence? I think not....

frenchkitty · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 37

Not surprised! Like pinky said, watch out for the full moon. P's start trolling again to refuel their supply. Twisted Evil

Echo · Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 8:06 pm Post subject:

I used to think that full moon stuff was nonsense, until I spoke to a mental health worker who told me the unit got overwhelmed on full moon - and then a police officer who confirmed that all the loons came out on that night! Theres got to be something in it.....I think its the biorythms - or eletrical currents...... LOL Wink

Matilda · Joined: 27 Feb 2007 Posts: 1834

Hi clueless,
your ex's quote is almost funny really isn't it? I hear ya- like you are (in his disordered way of thinking) expected to feel grateful for his different way of expressing insane behavior.

Stay strong- and just look at it this way- check who's at the door before you open it! lol...or put a chain on the door.....
keep note of every single time he tries to harass you or make these unwelcome visits. You don't have to put up with this disordered crap anymore.

hang in there
Matilda

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Shoogie0 · Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 41

I stupidly had contact with my N/P this weekend. Saturday actually. I think there was an eclipse. I got so angry at him and he didn't even say anything that could be construed as bad. He just knows how to push my buttons I guess.

I have the hardest head in the world Rolling Eyes

Teri470 · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 188

I know hospitals/Maternity Wards watch full moons and a friend of mine will make remarks about the moon being full.

March 3, huh?! Explains why some of the customers I dealt with Sat. were so mean and hateful..

Whens the next one? Going to check my calendar see if this stuff is on it. I had forgotten that my parents lived by it.

Might be a good day to take off. Very Happy

Nomosettl · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 11

Clueless1,
Would you believe that almost the exact same words were spoken by my XP? They just say that crap because they are desperately grasping at anything they think will persuade us to forgive them and give them another chance. We can just add that comment to the looonnnggg list of other nonsense that comes out of their mouths.

Besides, when they say they don't cheat on us, that's probably a lie to begin with. I think it's a case of "I have not cheated on you YET." The same is probably true for beating us. They probably would beat us if we let them stay around long enough.

My XP is far away in another state and I also had my land line disconnected and got a cell phone that he does not have the number for. I have had almost 2 months of perfect peace around here. The jackass knows that if he shows up at my house I will promptly call 911 and have him removed for trespassing. I made sure to do that the last time he was here so he would know that I was not fooling around, that I meant business, so I don't expect him to ever show up here again. He has no way of knowing whether I have a new boyfriend and I don't think he would subject himself to the humiliation of showing up here and being confronted by a man. He's pretty stupid but I'm hoping he's not that stupid.

Clueless1 · Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 138

You are right, he probably did cheat on me years ago and he has gotten in my face and grabbed me and punched holes in the wall, not to mention throwing my dog, crate and all off the back porch( I gave that dog away after that) and trying to throw the kids puppy against the wall for barking, and kicking it too. People who abuse animals will abuse others eventually. Probably never hit me cause he was afraid my Dad would kill him Laughing

Nomosettl · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 11

It hurts my heart to hear that he hurt your animals. I could tolerate a beating myself before I could tolerate seeing any of my animals needlessly hurt.

I believe it is illegal in most, if not all states to abuse animals. If anyone needs a reason to press charges on these wackos, that's a good one right there. The penalty can be anywhere from a big fine to a bit of jail time, sometimes both. My penalty would be a bit more harsh if I could get away with it. Grrrrrrr....

They need to be consistently bombarded with every charge they deserve but, primarily, we need to be wary of the red flags and not hook up with these fools in the first place. I am glad for the education I got but I could still kick myself.