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Windy's Tips On What To Do If You Are Being Cyberstalked....

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Windy's Tips On What To Do If You Are Being Cyberstalked....

Postby WindSong on Wed Oct 01, 2008 5:22 am

Tip #1
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You like to go on message boards and internet chat sites. It's fun and a great new way to make friends! The only trouble is that there are people out there who are not out to make friends with you. They are on sites to play games and cause trouble. They're some ones out there who are quite dangerous. Which brings me to tip #1 of this series of tips I am going to be posting to you often.

When you meet someone who seems interested in you through a message board, chat site, or date site take all precautions to make sure that your safety is the first priority. There have been women out there to went to meet their "online love" and have ended up dead.

Not to terribly long ago there was a poster/woman who was posting on one of our NP websites and her ex found her and murdered her.

There is a woman named Rachel Miller out there who got away from her abuser, got married again and was very happy. Bruce Daniels found her and maliciously beat her to death while raping her several times. She lived for several days to tell who had done this to her. She was pregnant with her third child. Her first son, by Bruce Daniels a year later committed suicide because he was terrified that he would grow up to be like his dad. He was 12 years old.

Here is the story of Bruce Daniels confession. BEWARE as it is very graphic and triggered me and does to this day. I'm a jaded and weary old soul and I can't handle it. But I make myself read it every once in a while so I can remember Rachel and Christopher and why I do this work

Use extreme caution when reading this:
http://www.suite101.com/discussion.cfm/ ... #message_1

It is a very triggering and harrowing story of his confession. And my point? Rachel moved away from Bruce and started her life over. And Bruce found her on the internet.

Enough said. Be careful always the information that you share with any one you meet on the internet regardless of how nice and sweet they seem. Because always remember, if it seems to good to be true, then it usually is. I, myself, had to find that out the hard way.
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Postby Rachelle on Mon Oct 06, 2008 12:57 am

Windsong, I read the link on Friday and what happened to taht Rachel has been on my mind ever since!

It was good timing, sometimes I need a bit of a refresher to remember to have all my safety things in place...

Thanks once again
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Postby WindSong on Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:55 am

Rachelle Sweetheart,

Thank you for the compliment! I however, don't give that link to give you a refresher, I gave it for you to read to SCARE you. I am trying to trigger you. I know we don't talk, but I am always here, always reading and watching what is going on. I barely have time to post to many because of having to check the board and the emails that come along all the time. Desperate women, just like us, who need some one to listen. Goes with the territory and all and I don't mind it. I took it on.

But what I am getting to is that you have just had a baby (Grace? Your saving Grace, perhaps? I got kids too) And this guy is just freaky Rachelle. I have read many of your posts here and kept up with your story. I know that you are now in a new reality of where you now are not just protecting yourself but protecting Baby Grace. And to keep Baby Grace safe and snug in her own little word MOMMY needs to make some pretty hard decisions. He has the baby to try to hurt YOU with now. He doesn't give one shit about BG, but we do, right? He's an N and they are nuts and they actually really do see babies and their own flesh and blood children as "the enemy" to vie for your attention. They could care less about the baby. They will just USE the baby against you. Tell you if you leave them they will get custody of the baby or threaten the baby. Men have killed their own children before. Most are labeled with narcissism or they are Psychopath. People that are truly evil and have no empathy and they have no conscience. Empathy and compassion are primal components of being a human being. HE doesn't have those sweetie. It's on you to save our Baby Grace and keep her safe and it's horrible it's her own dad that you have to protect her from. But screw him! It's you and that baby now and we are out there with you and sending you out vibes to see the light and do what you have to do to get out and away from him.

You are welcome to email me any time if you want to talk or holler at me on one of the boards and I'll see it.. I have others old friends and every body in my life who will see it if I dont and let me know.

Hugs to you and our Baby Grace!
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