Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

NancyCT · Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1308 Location: Connecticut, USA

Whew, I survived another middle school orchestra concert tonight with X-Nutbar in attendance. Time to break out the herbal teas and do some deep breathing.

It was great to see S12 smiling and enjoying his performance. When my friend told me that she saw where X-Whacko was sitting, I made it a point not to look. Later, waiting to congratulate my son in the lobby, I saw the Wingnut out of the corner of my eye and completely ignored him, never even looked in his direction. When I was pulling out of the parking lot, I saw my son and his Creep-father walking with another family that was taking my son out for an after-concert ice cream. He had his hand on the mother's back, talking to her while they walked. He does that, crosses personal boundaries, touches without permission. Most people I know hate it. It weirded me out just glimpsing it. Ugh.

Maybe a hot tub and some Bach's essences after the tea. And more deep breathing.

Summer · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 873

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Shadey Lady · Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Posts: 150

Nancy,

I somehow get the impression that you don't like your Ex: In one post alone he was X-nutbar, X whacko, wingnut and creep-father. I just hate it when you talk so nice about him...

LOL I needed a good laugh tonight.

Thanks. Shadey

Shania73 · Joined: 30 Apr 2008 Posts: 46

Wow, we were doing the same things this week, my son had a theatre music performance, except HE wasnt there...

Its so much more relaxing when they arent around and I wont go anywhere alone if I can help it, because I feel safer with another person present. Glad you made it through okay, now its time to recover from the near contact.