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tired of the pain
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PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 3:55 am    Post subject: why do I miss her ?? Reply with quote
She hurt me more than anyone has in my life. She used my true love for her to hurt me. So WHY do I miss her and cry that im not with her ??? Why do I miss her in my bed with me when I know that the love she says she has for me is completely fake??? One day she loves me the next day she hates me for no reason ??
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PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 7:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Tired of the Pain,

Probably because you are a normal ,loving, kind, human being who actually believed that she was being honest when she told you she loved you.

It's out of the ordinary for us to believe that there are people like N,s who are so unempathetic that they use us and con us and LIE to us and hurt us like they do.

It is not normal and we are shocked when we discover the truth, that it was all a lie, and nothing but a game to the N.They are cruel cruel people.

It's painful to realize it all, and I hope you know you are not alone and it takes time but you will survive this and come out stronger and this experience will protect you in the future from getting involved with another N and ever having to go through this again.

Sorry you are hurting so much,
Summer
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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 2:17 am    Post subject: thank you summer Reply with quote
thank you summer for your reply. Everything you wrote is very true. Another thing that i dont understand is why did i put up with all of the pain that she put me and my kids through just to get a little fake love from her when she acted that way to control me more?
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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 4:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 5:50 pm    Post subject: what do you mean? Reply with quote
What do you mean have i read anything on the left on npd??
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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 6:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
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PostPosted: Wed May 14, 2008 7:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Tired of the Pain,

Here is another Link, you can also look on the left of the page and click on the articles, there is lots of information,very interesting and will give you an idea of what you were dealing with, and realize it is not your fault and you are not alone in this;hope this helps!

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER

Summer
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PostPosted: Thu May 15, 2008 4:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
thank you summer for all that you have done for me. I checked the site you wrote to me and it is very helpful. One part described how a women can be a psychopath and it really helped me to understand more of this. Soon I will begin to post my story thank you again... Please keep in touch
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 6:40 am    Post subject: Re: why do I miss her ?? Reply with quote
tired of the pain wrote:
She hurt me more than anyone has in my life. She used my true love for her to hurt me. So WHY do I miss her and cry that im not with her ??? Why do I miss her in my bed with me when I know that the love she says she has for me is completely fake??? One day she loves me the next day she hates me for no reason ??


I had the same experience. I loved her very much. She was pretty. She committed adultery and it killed me. I still missed her. 23 years of marraige, two kids. It is hard to shake the love despite the logical evidence.
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