Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

betterday · Joined: 10 May 2008 Posts: 1

Thank you in advance for any help you can offer.
I was married to an N ..... and know those trates well. I recently left yet another N relationship. And he had all of the tell tell signs. What is confusing me is my female roommate. I am either going nuts, and feel that everyone that seems a bit off to me is an N. Or there is truly something a miss with this individual. I will list issues and behavior problems I have picked up on.
1) Always turns the conversation to herself
2) fishes for compliments
3) Never takes responibility for her cruel remarks or actions
4) makes comments to lead you to believe she is the kindest, most giving, most special, because she seriously thinks she is
5) seems to always want things a certain way for herself...but ignores what others need
6) does not respect emotional boundries
7) When things don't go her way she views herself as a victim.
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trys to control all of my time
I could go on and on.......I find myself totaly shutting her out. Not wanting to be around her any longer than I have to. Then it seems instead of respecting my distance, she will confront me and want a two hour conversation on why I don't want to be around her.
She tries very hard to project this perfect image of herself. And if you identify any of her faults she becomes very defensive. So trying to explain to her boundries etc is futal. She turns it all around to where she is this wonderful person who only wants to be my friend. Being around her is giving me the same empty drained and frustrated feelings I have had with past N relationships. "She only shares a house with me." I plan on moving ASAP...this has become exhausting!!!