 |
Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group
An Online Support Community For Abuse Survivors
|
| Welcome |
Welcome to Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group.
You are currently viewing our boards as a guest, which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community, you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content, and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple, and absolutely free, so please, join our community today! |
| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| Author |
Message |
Sazzy Artard
Joined: 01 Apr 2008
Posts: 7
Location: Texas
|
 Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:28 am Post subject: Narcissist Mom's Birthday |
 |
|
| My mother's birthday is April 12 and I am thinking about it all the time. We had a break up and are barely speaking. Not going will bring on the guilt but going has its price on my mental and physical health. What can I do? Sazzy in Texas (I joined today)
|
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Danielle
Joined: 02 May 2007
Posts: 33
|
| Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 5:04 am Post subject: |
|
|
Hi Sazzy!
I understand your dilemna. I was in the same situation with my N father just this past Sunday. I had decided to see him a few days after his birthday, because I was physically ill and wasn't up to dealing with his abusive, intimidating ways. Well, a few days have passed, and I'm still not in the mood. I don't feel guilty. In fact, I feel good about not going. Why subject myself to abuse? I'm tired of of putting up with his insanity. I don't want to be his punching bag.
I hope you're able to decide what's best for you. Sometimes if contact ends up abusive, it's okay not to see our parent, especially if seeing them will provoke you to react in unhealthy ways.
Best wishes.
Danielle
|
|
| Back to top |
|
|
Sazzy Artard
Joined: 01 Apr 2008
Posts: 7
Location: Texas
|
| Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 10:19 pm Post subject: Narcissist Mom's Birthday |
|
|
Thank you, Danielle, for sharing your experience and feelings about this subject.
I still don't know what to do. I suppose I should follow my heart (intuition) and not feel guilty doing what it tells me. Do you have a NM also?
Sazzy
|
|
| Back to top |
|
|
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum
|
|
FAQ
Search
Memberlist
Usergroups
Register
Profile
Log in to check your private messages
Log in
