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littlecat2



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 2:16 pm    Post subject: ~ new traditions ~ Reply with quote
Hi all .... well, I decided this year, to just start some new traditions for myself. Everytime I would go to make the same cookies, decorate the same, as when I was still married to my X/NH, I would feel really sad. Well, this year, I have done everything differently. I've totally change decorations, and the cookies I'm making are all new ones. It feels a whole lot better and is another breakaway - emotionally - from the clutches of my X/N. Just a suggestion for everyone ... maybe try that and see if it helps.
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Cookie2



Joined: 28 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 10:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
TOTALLY AGREE Tilda! The a** did his very best to ruin any day I might like......my birthdays....mothers day.....Christmas......I would decorate all alone.......then he'd piss me off and I would put all the decorations away.......he never gave a rip what I did.........These days I do my best to make Christmas happy for myself as well as my 2 grandaughters and my daughter......I havent had a bad Christmas since I left xp.......I think a lot about all the family I used to have that he ripped away from me on the holiday but I can deal with that.......Just am so glad not to be around that ungratfull a** any more....That ALONE makes Christmas merry! Abby.....are you going to be alone on Christmas day? If you are I have plans but will be on the site a few times cause my plans are really close to home and I always like to check in here for the members who dont have anyone to spend the day with....just so you know I'll be around ok? Love ya.........
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littlecat2



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PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Hi Cookie ... yes, I will be here alone. It's OK though .... I'm to go to see one of my daughters and her husband this weekend and next weekend (right before Christmas), my other daughter and her family are coming up to visit me. Sometime in the mix my son will be home from Law School and, while he stays at his Dad, I'll get to see him often I'm sure. Peculiarly enough, Christmas - in fact all holidays - for me as a child were horrendous, so being alone on Christmas now is rather a relief. I know .... strange. But, I know I'll be in here that day, so I'll meet ya' then! Take care ....

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littlecat2



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PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 2:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Hi again Cookie ... one other thing ..... I "splurged" about two weeks ago and got myself a lovely gold necklace. They wrapped it and it's sitting, waiting for me to open it on Christmas Day. te-he ... really sort of outdid, or over-did, myself I guess ... it was $800!!!!
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 5:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
WAY TO GO ABBY!!!!!!!!! Who better than you to know what YOU want...lol
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