Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

downnoutnsk · member Joined: 11 Sep 2007 Posts: 38

Well, I survived another week of NC. I kinda cheated though since I haven't been turning my phone on... I guess whatever works though, right? One thing I am having trouble with is this: when I don't visit the forum and I just go about my daily life, I don't think of him all the time, but when I do, I kind of forget all the bad stuff and tend to idealize our relationship. I don't know how to stop that other than visiting the forum, which always wakes me up!!

movedon · Site Admin Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 814

HI, Well done on a week of NC thats great.!!!!!
I think when we think of them we do tend to remember only the good times , but when we really analyse it were they really good times? or were they just times when he was being nice?
I think your doing brilliant and we know how hard it is, the end is worth the struggle.

Hugs
Movedon
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downnoutnsk · member Joined: 11 Sep 2007 Posts: 38

Hi movedon. I'm going to stop posting replies with my story. I kind of don't want to draw attention to it anymore Embarassed

but i'll leave it up in case someone else finds it helpful.

I've been writing more in the NPD message board because my ex seems to have been more of an N than a P.

I sort of broke NC today (more like I allowed it to be broken or I consented in him breakin it Embarassed

) but I'm ok so far. This site has really helped a lot and I'm going to read some of the things I wrote to myself when things were bad to remind me why I don't want to talk to him.

Thanks for your support Smile