Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

OxDrover · Joined: 13 May 2007 Posts: 1465 Location: Arkansas USA

Welcome to the board. N C means NO CONTACT.

As you read and learn more about psychopaths and narcissists you will learn that they CANNOT change because they don't want to.

They are good at pretending to "love" you and so on, but it is only an act to get close enough to USE YOU for wahtever it is that they are trying to get---anything from adoration to your money to your life.

The only way to deal with them is TOTAL and COMPLETE NO CONTACT-- no answering the phone, no e mailing, etc. just completely cut them out of your life.

As the above posts show, it is difficult to do when you love your child, sibling, parent or your ex husband etc. but it is the only way to survive these people.

Read and learn about the TOXICITY of these disordered people. There are many good people on this forum with good advice, learned the hard way. God bless.
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lovebeads1963 · Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 1 Location: south dakota

Hi I am new here, I am 45 and live with my son, a sociopath with schizophrenia, he emotionally abused me, and sexually abused me for years, he is trying to stop the sexual abuse, it has been months since the last time he waited for me to go to sleep so he could do want he wanted to me without me knowing ,so he thinks. I will not turn him in to the police because he makes people believe it is my fault when they find out he is my son he tells people he is my husband, unconditional love bites, he is my son I love him, his father was much worse to me, at least my son doesn't beat me, yet. I just need someone to talk to , I only have 1 living family member other than him and I don't know how to tell her what he does to me, without her wanting to kill him or put him prison, so far I am his only victim, if my being with him will keep others safer, so be it, sociopaths have been part of my life, all my life , my mother was one also. I definitely have PDST and now agoraphobia . Maybe tomorrow will be better.