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Stacieb



Joined: 15 Aug 2007
Posts: 59
PostPosted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 6:59 am    Post subject: Small Question. Reply with quote
Hello girls.

My request is rather small, im still learning and reading but there is one thing that really gets on my last nerves.

My xP contacts me every couple of months but its usually "Hope you are doing well! good wishes for the future!!"

I stopped replying in February

What is wrong with his contact is he is really OVER the TOP too nice, after my D&D he treated me as if he was superior, not kind to me etc......

But now hes just so sickly nice im wondering : "Why and what is he up to"?

He only says a few lines in his emails, but it comes across as fake pleasentries.


Is this usual behaviour?


-Stacie x
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Cookie2



Joined: 28 Feb 2007
Posts: 1404
PostPosted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 11:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Not unusual Stacie....He's maintaining contact and that might well be his only purpose right now......purpose might change later on.....you need to block his emails Stacie.....Its too hard and too confusing for you if you dont.....p's LOVE to confuse us with their behaviors.....We need to protect ourselves from this in whatever ways we can.Get him blocked ok?
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WindSong
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Joined: 10 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 12:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
In addition to what Cookie says, You are my dear- on stand by N supply. He's trying to maintain contact so if the new supply depletes, he might be able to come back to you for primary supply.

Like Cookie says, block him. Get him out of your life. To have him in it in any way only serves to confuse and get you upset.
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Stacieb



Joined: 15 Aug 2007
Posts: 59
PostPosted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 4:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Well hes going to get a shock.

Not only am I not going to reply to him, Ive changed my email address today so he will be talking to an empty account. Smile

I had a feeling he was keeping contact in case he needed me again but i wasn't 100% sure.

Thanks girls.

Stacie x
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Cookie2



Joined: 28 Feb 2007
Posts: 1404
PostPosted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 5:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Razz Your so very welcome Stacie Razz Most of the time you need to 'go with your gut' because your gut seems to know Rolling Eyes And in time you will be educated about these creeps.......It's empowering to say the least!
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