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Summer



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 7:18 pm    Post subject: Email Reply with quote
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dagna



Joined: 18 Apr 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 8:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
That is really disturbing. Yuck.
One thing I would advise is to not unsubscribe, that just tells them it is a valid email address, and then they can sell it. Do you have a spam filter? Can you change your email address?

I don't know if they ever stop. I suspect he will get bored and stop eventually. But Summer, you have a particularly persistent leech there.
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Summer



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 9:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
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cangel



Joined: 24 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 10:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
My suggestion would be to have an separate email address that is dedicated to the N and he is the only one that knows what it is. Make sure when you set it up you let him know that it is a private email address for his use only! (that might even make him feel special!) Make sure you do not use it for anything else - then you will know for certain if he is "sharing it etc." You will also know that you should only open and read emails that are sent to it from him regarding the kids....everything else you can just delete.

Then....set up a new address that is for you and all of your other correspondence and make sure he does not know what it is.

This system has worked well for me. Side benifit - I never get surprised by an email from him when I don't expect it and am not ready to deal with it. These days ...... I mostly forget to check his special separate address......
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Summer



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 12:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
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Summer



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 12:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
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Summer



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 2:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
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cangel



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 2:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Glad you thought my idea would work. Perhaps you should block his address from your other account though.

Cheers.....and hang in there, they get bored with us when we stop playing their game.
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ohgal



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 5:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
cangel~
GREAT IDEA!! I think I will do this as well... Thanks for the idea.
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Summer



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