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When they brought him into court!

 
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betterdaysn2007



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 47
PostPosted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 6:02 pm    Post subject: When they brought him into court! Reply with quote
He was up at the courthouse acting like the all loving father and husband, so concerned about my baby and me. The prosecutor told me that when he goes to trial, he thinks he will take that as his "defense", his undying love for us and that I am making this up, yet he still loves me. DISGUSTING! He's in for a BIG surprise when we play the tapes of him ADMITTING to everything in his own voice. WHY? HOW? Why does it take so long to get through the courts?
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stillsmilen



Joined: 10 Feb 2007
Posts: 363
PostPosted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 11:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Wink Wow can I relate!!! My XNP showed up in court with his hair combed over to the side, looking all goofy. And he was incredibly soft spoken, which is not even close to his normal voice.

Get to see him in court again next month, I'm sure he'll be that fake, soft spoken guy again.

Cool stillsmilen
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betterdaysn2007



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 47
PostPosted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 12:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
It's rather disgusting when you know their true colors, isn't it?! Good Luck in court next month. I have no idea when I go back, I guess I'll face him for his criminal charges first, then if I understand correctly, he will not be allowed to attend the divorce hearing from jail. It's amazing that if they can be as perfect as they portray themselves to be, why they can't REALLY be that way!
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stillsmilen



Joined: 10 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Rolling Eyes It's so true, they have so many fooled!! So many still believe my XNP is a good guy. Hopefully the judge will see through it. Thanks for your wish of good luck for next month!!

Good luck to you too!!

Cool stillsmilen
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He may have knocked me down, but I got right back up... And kicked his a**!!
(metaphorically speaking ofcourse, but if he hadn't gotten the PPO, I probably would have done it literally too!!)
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betterdaysn2007



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 47
PostPosted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 12:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Thanks, Still! As much havoc as the wreck, it amazes me that there is a single person left that they can fool! People who have heard about all they've done, they still convince them to feel sorry for them?!
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Echo
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Joined: 11 Feb 2007
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Location: Yellow Brick Rd.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Good luck guys! Go get 'em Twisted Evil
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artichokeheart



Joined: 15 Feb 2007
Posts: 34
Location: United States/ Estados Unidos
PostPosted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 4:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
My husband keeps threatening to challenge me for custody... My only hope is that he'll stay so drunk he'll never get around to it. It makes me nervous though because he could convince a court, I truly believe that. I have no physical evidence of his past behavior and he comes across as a totally together, genuine guy when he wants to be. What a nightmare.
-Teresa
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betterdaysn2007



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 47
PostPosted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 5:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Thanks, Echo! As nervewracking as it is, there is no choice! This too, shall pass...

Artichoke....It's amazing how they appear to pull it together to fool others. This P is incarcerated, facing 3 life sentences, so I don't have custody issues, just the threats, etc. However, I am SOOOO thankful that we have him RECORDED admitting to everything. When I tell people, who don't understand Ps that I am still worried, they don't understand how I could be with him admitting, but you know how it goes with a P! Ugh!
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Hummingbird



Joined: 15 Feb 2007
Posts: 40
PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 3:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
These posts make a good case for going to a sperm donor clinic next time...would seriously be my choice if I were to have another child. No court hassles or sickos to deal with.
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betterdaysn2007



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 47
PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 12:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
LOL, my friend did the artificial insemination and at first I thought HOW COULD SHE DO THAT?! Now, I'm thinking, WHY DIDN'T I DO THAT?! LOL She is still a single parent, but with none of these headaches.
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samvaknin



Joined: 15 Feb 2007
Posts: 1875
PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 12:58 pm    Post subject: The Narcissist in Court Reply with quote
The Narcissist in Court - click on these links:

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq78.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/5.html

Save for later reference! Forward to interested parties and relevant
discussion and mailing groups!

Divorcing the Narcissist, Psychopath, Bully, or Stalker

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/5.html

Getting Help

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse19.html

Domestic Violence Shelters

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse20.html

Planning and Executing Your Getaway

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse21.html

Should You Get the Police Involved?

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse21a.html

Peace Bonds and Restraining Orders

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse21b.html

The Narcissist in Court

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq78.html

The Guilt of the Abused - Pathologizing the Victim

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse2.html

Conning the System

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abusefamily10.html

Befriending the System

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abusefamily11.html

Working with Professionals

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abusefamily12.html

Interacting with Your Abuser

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abusefamily13.html

What to Expect

The Vindictive Narcissist

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq75.html

The Three Forms of Closure

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse17.html

Take care.

Sam
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pinkybubbles
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 19, 2007 2:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
betterdaysn2007 wrote:
LOL, my friend did the artificial insemination and at first I thought HOW COULD SHE DO THAT?! Now, I'm thinking, WHY DIDN'T I DO THAT?! LOL She is still a single parent, but with none of these headaches.


I would think it is less costly financially as well as emotionally too
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betterdaysn2007



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 47
PostPosted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Thanks to both of you!
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