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Raspberries · Guest

Ok I think I discussed this ages ago on the old board, but someone please explain to me again WHY WHY WHY WHY do they think we are being vindictive, when WE leave them, THEY chase US to get US back. Then THEY find a new soulmate *vomit* Wink

, get engaged to new *vomit* soulmate within 3 months of meeting. Compare us to them and make us feel like shit about our bodies/looks even more.

Then claim WE are being vindictive when we refuse to have anything more to do with them? Confused

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Clueless1 · Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 138

Good question. I think they guilt us. That is what mine used GUILT!!!
But since NC my guilt has diminshed. I think SCREW him!

WindSong · Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 11:44 pm Post subject:

It's simple. They don't see where THEY are wrong. Why are you being like this and not wanting anything to do with me when I am so perfect and I didn't do anything wrong. That's their mindset. They do no wrong so they don't deserve that kind of treatment from you.
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Lukky · Site Admin Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 2620

Mine used to twist everything round to being my fault..... In the end I didnt know whether I was coming or going.......... My head was just spinning..... He was so Vindictive.... still is,,,, but I ignore all the b/s he says to people about me now.......

Tammys right they think they are perfect.....and how could they possibly do anything wrong..... Mine used to be always looking in the Mirror... I used to find it funny and endearing untill I realised he did actually think he was perfect!!
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Lukky · Site Admin Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 2620

This is how it feels...LOL
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Lukky · Site Admin Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 2620

OOOOOPs didnt work...... it was an alien head spinning anyway
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Cookie1 · Guest

I had a chance to see a picture of the young girl p replace me with....she looked a LOT like I do... Embarassed

She was about 25 yrs younger than I so that would make her 30 yrs younger than xp Twisted Evil

One other difference between her and I is that she wore big thick boots instead of shoes.....and when he found her she was already living in a shelter Exclamation

I bet once he was done with her that shelter looked like a paridise.....he beat her up(oh no...that cant be right Embarassed

I was the one who caused him to hit Laughing

)and she called the cops...because I had a cop come when I moved my things out this time they sent 2 separate squad cars(the neighbors have got to be blind as bats Embarassed

) she left and the next day she called the cops again to get her things out and protect her from him while she did...they sent 4 squad cars Exclamation

(now I KNOW the neighbors are blind as bats cause they still LOVE him)The police report said they saw no weapons or booze.....when I moved out my gf told the cop about all of p's guns so they were looking for them.....Anyways Ras...they might 'replace' us but make no mistake about it....no one is happy...WAIT......I am! Laughing

Cookie1 · Guest

Hey Lukky

Thats the exact same avator I was attempting to get Laughing

My xp was always looking in the mirrors too....thats the N in them Twisted Evil

Thinking they are studs Exclamation

Nolongerhisvictim · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 1435

Cookie!!!! I love your cookie! You're so cute!!!!

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Cookie1 · Guest

Cookie takes a bow!!! Actually nolonger someone else did it for me...computer illiterate here Embarassed

A very sweet friend on the board did it for me and I Love her for it Laughing

And(needs to be said) I LOVE TAMMY TOO Laughing