Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

sweetcaroline51 · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 540 Location: Canada

Hi Windsong,
It takes alot of courage to determine that nc is the best thing with a parent. I am sorry you have had to come to this point. I think that we have to set boundaries with anyone including parents who we feel are not treating us properly. I admire your courage and the self respect it takes to do this. Stay strong.
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WindSong · Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 10:02 am Post subject:

Thank you Caroline. I've gotten past being hurt and upset now and I am angry now. The hardest part is going through the gamut of emotions that we feel when we are treated so horribly by people who are supposed to love us like a parent especially, I think.

It's been one week and four days NC now and I am feeling a little more better about it and more resolved in my decision. I just feel sad for him that he's alone. But not enough to threaten my well being for him.

Take care and hugs,
Tammy
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Gina · Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 10:45 pm Post subject:

Windsong,
I'm so sorry about what happened with your Dad. You undoubtedly will be much better off without contact with him. It seems like the people that are supposed to love us and be there for us are the one's who invariably end up hurting us the most.
My oldest son was supposed to take me out to dinner for Mother's day and he said he would call me, but I never heard from him all day. There was a time in my life that I would have been very very upset about something like that, but I only felt a little upset and it made me realize that he isn't going to be there for me and couldn't care less. That hurts, of course, but it's not worth me trying to have a relationship that is one sided, with me giving everything and getting nothing in return.
I know also that you told me never to write anything to the N. or I would live to regret it. Twisted Evil

Also, remember THE GREATEST REVENGE is not letting him see that you give a damn! Laughing

We're here for you.
Take Care.
Love,
Gina

wlw35 · Joined: 09 Mar 2007 Posts: 374

Gina, is your son an N? Sorry, I don't know your story, but felt so sad about your son not calling on M day. Hope today is better. WLW