Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

femfree · Guest

Hi Sam Here is a question from NB

I told my xbf that he was narcissistic/psychopath and since I did that he is raging , writing nasty things about me online. On datingpsychos.com he has smeared my name to bits and has made me look and feel like crap. Is he angry or out for revenge? He seems to be getting angrier and angrier and I'm a single Mom with two daughters and terrified. He calls my daughter 'the kid' in his rantings. She's 18. He was always very jealous of my kids, my pets, anything that took the attention off of him. I have a RO[thank God] but he rages at me on one site then another site he's saying "You don't believe in God" " I attend church three times a week"
It's like he's two different ppl~~~one raging and angry, the other the pastor, the perfect one.
He seems to be doing a whole lot of projecting. HEL me to understand this and can hyou provide suggestions as to what I should do?

samvaknin · Site Admin Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 2316

NB, you shouldn't go around "diagnosing" and labelling people if you are not professionally qualified to do so. Even a normal person could get enraged by such behavior.

These may be of help - click on the links:

How to Cope with Narcissistic and Psychopathic Abusers

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq4.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily19.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily20.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/npdtips.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/5.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq80.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/4.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq75.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/journal56.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/journal68.html

Strategies for Coping with Abusers (General)

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse3.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse17.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse19.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse20.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse21.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse21a.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse21b.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse12.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse13.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse5.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse6.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily13.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily5.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily6.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily8.html

Working with the System and with Professionals

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily10.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily11.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily12.html

How to Cope with Stalkers and Paranoids

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse18.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse15.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse16.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily14.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily16.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily17.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily18.html

Sam