Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Hi, everyone,

Victims of domestic violence (battering), spousal abuse, emotional, verbal, psychological, and financial abuse - hope you find these new tip sheets useful - click on the links:

What is Abuse?

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse.html

I. The Gradations of Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse1.html

II. The Guilt of the Abused - Pathologizing the Victim

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse2.html

III. Coping with Your Abuser

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse3.html

IV. The Abuser in Denial

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse4.html

V. Avoiding Your Abuser - The Submissive Posture

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse5.html

VI. Avoiding Your Abuser - The Conflictive Posture

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse6.html

VII. The Tocsins of Abuse - How to Spot an Abuser on Your First Date

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse7.html

VIII. The Tocsins of Abuse - The Abuser's Body Language

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse8.html

IX. The Path to Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse9.html

X. Ambient Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse10.html

XI. Abuse by Proxy

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse11.html

XII. Leveraging the Children

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse12.html

XIII. Tell Your Children the Truth

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse13.html

XIV. The Relief of Being Abandoned

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse14.html

XV. How to Cope with Your Paranoid Ex

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse15.html

XVI. Avoiding Your Paranoid Ex

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse16.html

XVII. The Three Forms of Closure

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse17.html

XVIII. Coping with Stalking and Stalkers

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse18.html

XIX. Getting Help

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse19.html

XX. Domestic Violence Shelters

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse20.html

XXI. Planning and Executing Your Getaway

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse21.html

XXIa. Should You Get the Police Involved?

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse21a.html

XXIb. Should You Get the Courts Involved?

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse21b.html

Danse Macabre - The Dynamics of Intimate Partner Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily.html

II. The Mind of the Abuser

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily2.html

III. Condoning Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily3.html

IV. The Anomaly of Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily4.html

V. Reconditioning the Abuser

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily5.html

VI. Reforming the Abuser

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily6.html

VII. Contracting with Your Abuser

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily7.html

VIII. Your Abuser in Therapy

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily8.html

IX. Testing the Abuser

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily9.html

X. Conning the System

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily10.html

XI. Befriending the System

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily11.html

XII. Working with Professionals

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily12.html

XIII. Interacting with Your Abuser

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily13.html

XIV. Coping with Your Stalker

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily14.html

XV. Statistics of Abuse and Stalking

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily15.html

XVI. The Stalker as Antisocial Bully

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily16.html

XVII. Coping with Various Types of Stalkers

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily17.html

XVIII. The Erotomanic Stalker

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily18.html

XIX. The Narcissistic Stalker

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily19.html

XX. The Psychopathic (Antisocial) Stalker

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily20.html

XXI. How Victims are Affected by Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily21.html

XXII. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily22.html

XXIII. Recovery and Healing from Trauma and Abuse

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily23.html

XXIV. The Conflicts of Therapy

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily24.html

Take care,

Sam Vaknin
Author of "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited"

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/thebook.html