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25 mths No Contact, Court Orders, he's still stalking

Sam Vaknin is the author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" and 8 other books about personality disorders and abuse in relationships with narcissists and psychopaths. He is the owner and moderator of support forums and the first person to have written about the Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD) online (in 1997). He invented many of the terms currently used to describe the disorder and its effects on family, the workplace, and in various professions.

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25 mths No Contact, Court Orders, he's still stalking

Postby mylifeismyownagain » Mon Jul 28, 2014 9:39 pm

Hello Dr. Vaknin. I was with my diagnosed BPD co-morbid ASPD boyfriend for 14 years. Suffice it to say that Law Enforcement made many errors with my situation. I now work with them to help train how to deal with cases like mine. I tried many times over the years to end it with him but the stalking and other dangerous behaviours as well as Police and Mental Health inaction were not conducive to my escape. With a lot of help I finally escaped, he was charged and convicted on 3 counts, assault, uttering threats to kill and uttering threats to burn. He also breached twice and was sentenced with a list of conditions. He had a Pre Sentencing Report done as well as a Forensic Psych Evaluation, both of which came back stating that he is indeed a very dangerous individual. my question is: He is highly intelligent, and, continues to stalk me to just outside the legal limits imposed by the Court. It says No Go within 100 metres of me, so he's at 101, someone has been leaving "things" in strategic places, that only I and he know the meaning of, etc. It has been 25 months No Contact and he has been forced to move 13 hours drive away by the courts, he also lives with another woman, a girlfriend, yet he continues to stalk. I report every sighting and the Police and his Parole Officer talk to him about it. I am not afraid of him anymore, I have a guard dog, and, I have 2 years of Russian Mixed Martial Arts training now and he knows that. Why is he still stalking me????? And, as he has built a shrine and attempted a murder suicide in the past, 2 years prior to the sentence. Do you think that he will try it again?????? Or will he eventually just give up? The professionals here are stumped..........
If you need more info I will be happy to provide it.
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