It has been 4 years since I have seen or spoken to my mother in law. My husband and children
have no relationship with her either. I want to make things better, for my husband's sake. But
I am not at all sure about how to go about communicating with her (and her family who all
support her N -ness). She has not nor will not acknowledge the hurt and covert abuse she has
inflicted on me- and my husband, but mostly me- and I am feeling at a loss. Sounds crazy, but i dont want all this ON ME- she will die one day and the WHOLE family supports her. That is how manipulative she is.