Let your therapist be the judge of that. It is always a trial and error process.
These may be of help - click on the links:
The Narcissist's Victims
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq38.htmlVictim Reactions to Abuse by Narcissists and Psychopaths
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/per ... ers70.htmlMourning the Narcissist
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq68.htmlThe Three Forms of Closure
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abuse17.htmlBack to La-la Land
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/journal78.htmlThe Spouse/Mate/Partner of the Narcissist
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq6.htmlDivorcing the Narcissist and the Narcissistic Psychopath - How Do I Get Rid
of Him?
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/5.htmlTraumas as Social Interactions
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/trauma.htmlHow Victims are Affected by Abuse
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily21.htmlHow Victims are Affected by Abuse - Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily22.htmlHow Victims are Affected by Abuse - Recovery and Healing
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily23.htmlRescue Fantasies - Surviving the Narcissist
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq80.htmlThe Malignant Optimism of the Abused
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/journal27.htmlThe Inverted Narcissist - Codependence and Relationships with Abusive
Narcissists
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/faq66.htmlCodependence and the Dependent Personality Disorder
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/per ... ers22.htmlThe Dependent Patient - A Case Study
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/per ... ers56.htmlDanse Macabre - Trauma bonding and the Stockholm Syndrome
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/abusefamily.htmlThe Cult of the Narcissist
http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/journal79.htmlNarcissists and Personality disordered Mates, Spouses, and Partners
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/5013Projection and Projective Identification - Abuser in Denial
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/5002Approach-Avoidance Repetition Complex and Fear of Intimacy
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/5000Guilt? What guilt?
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/4931Narcissists, psychopaths, sex, and marital fidelity
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/4920The Narcissist or Psychopath Hates your Independence and Personal Autonomy
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/4959I miss him so much - I want him back!
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/4934Take care.
Sam