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P x-BF or Boss, Which First

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P x-BF or Boss, Which First

Postby blue_eyed_guy on Sat Oct 31, 2009 5:26 am

I am new to this forum and new to the subject of Psychopathy. Somewhere online recently, I saw an article about Psychopaths and was struck by how much an x-BF of mine fit the profile. After browsing this forum, I also realized a past Boss who made my life hell is also probably a Psychopath or at least a Narcissist.

Which first, the BF or the Boss? Both stories are interesting, although I must admit the BF story has a bizarreness fit for a Psychopath...
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Re: P x-BF or Boss, Which First

Postby knoxy on Sat Oct 31, 2009 6:54 am

Depends. What brings you to the site?
Whenever evil befalls us, we ought to ask ourselves, after the first suffering, how we can turn it into good. So shall we take occasion, from one bitter root, to raise perhaps many flowers. ~ Leigh Hunt
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Re: P x-BF or Boss, Which First

Postby blue_eyed_guy on Sat Oct 31, 2009 3:46 pm

I guess the x-BF is more pressing because 1) I am trying to find peace and closure with a very upsetting episode in my life; 2) a fear that as the holidays approach he might try to contact me and I need support to stay away. The Boss thing is less important as the my lawyer is taking care of that for me, but important in that it helped me understand why I am vulnerable to P and N personalities.
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Re: P x-BF or Boss, Which First

Postby Aquarius123 on Sat Oct 31, 2009 4:51 pm

Dear Blue, welcome to the board! I hope you gain knowledge here through the informational sites offered and from the other people who have learned much, who post here! You are smart to be proactive about dealing with (or, preferably, having NC with) P's & N's. Love, Aquarius
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Re: P x-BF or Boss, Which First

Postby blue_eyed_guy on Sun Nov 01, 2009 5:09 am

Aquarius123;

Thanks. As soon as I stumbled upon this site, I realized I finally found a place to get some kindred support.
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