Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Kathryann · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 72

Posted: Tue Apr 17, 2007 12:02 am Post subject:

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After I went back with my ex-P husband for the last time, I picked up his cell phone and realized that he was still contacting the woman he moved in with 8 days after our divorce that he met in drug-rehab. So I called her to talk about the situation, she was furious at me, said she hated him and her family wanted to press charges against him for taking money, and she didn't want anything to do with him. Presumably she told him that. Even though he was living with me (again), he told me that he felt very badly that he hurt her, and what she said to him really hurt his feelings, she was his sex partner (he did not want sex with me) and his friend, and that he didn't feel that he was that BAD of a guy. It was as though he was shocked that anyone would think badly about all the destruction he has caused in everyone's life. He has NEVER felt badly about me, never said he felt badly, blamed everything on me, the divorce, etc. etc. He also said he was insanely jealous of her, and he was NEVER jealous of me. It's so confusing Dr. I'm the only one he has ever married. I don't get it. Also, he has not tried to maintain any type of contact with me at all. This time he dumped me for good, and for someone else again. Can you explain this to me?

Kathryann

samvaknin · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 2230

Kathryann,

You seem to have multiple questions. This is not the right forum for such correspondence.

I suggest that you apply to the managers for a case study in which I will be better able to tackle your queries.

Sam