Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Narcissistic and psychopathic parents and their children - click on the links:

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/na ... ssage/4727

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http://www.saa4kids.com



NOTHING justifies the minimization or removal
of a fit and loving parent from a child's life
NOTHING



Up until a little over 3 years ago, I was the primary care-giver of these children ever since they were born and the separation has been devastating beyond description. When my case was started over 3 years ago...I knew it would take time and I was told by my first attorney to be patient. Back in 5/06, Larry Andree forced me out of the home by getting a PPO issued against me and he further used this PPO to keep me away from the children and our home. At that time, Larry Andree had taken our children to his parent's condominium and left me in the home.

Three weeks later, Mr. Andree went back into our home while I was out. When I returned, he refused to let me in and stated he had a PPO against me. John Foley, (the children's GAL) stated in his report, "he believed my statement to be true that there was no doubt that the children told this court whatever their father had told them to say in order to place the PPO in place against me." Yes...I was forced out of the home and I was told by my first attorney there was nothing I could do about the PPO and to be patient. I did not abandon those children and I did not leave the home of my own accord. I lived in fear of Larry Andree and his PPO.

When Larry Andree kept alienating, harassing, intimidating, manipulating, and obstructing any way of seeing our children over these past 3 years...again, I told myself to be patient. As more time went by and our children were subjected to more verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and brain washing... I told myself that the system will see it now and step in to stop the abuse of the children. I truly believe that not only has Mr.. Andree been able to abuse myself and our children, he has also been able to manipulate, control, and abuse the court and it's system for his own abusive needs.

There are no gray areas where my case is involved. This is a case that screams of domestic violence. Domestic violence is not just about physical violence, but it also encompasses the verbal and emotional abuse. The verbal and emotional abuse carries deep scars that cannot be seen, but are carried inside for a life time. The undisputed fact is the greatest harm that is inflicted through these decisions is heaped on the shoulders of the children involved. These decisions have left invisible and permanent wounds that my children will carry with them for the rest of their lives.

I was told a while ago to not let emotion interfere with the process and to just be patient. I have to say those 4 precious children are all about emotion. I have documentation which shows that I am a very caring, loving, and capable mother who misses her children very much. No mother should have to go through the nightmare that I am enduring each and every day.

There are truly no words to describe the emotional pain, abandonment, and confusion my children have gone through from being separated from their mother. There is no doubt that they will carry with them the life-long baggage from the blatant abuse from their father.


As I've said before....NOTHING justifies the minimization
or removal of a fit and loving parent from a child's life. NOTHING.


the following is more of my story....