Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Cookie2 · Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1377

What a scum bag Embarassed

This a** needs to get a LIFE and stop trying to ruin yours and your daughters Twisted Evil

I'm so sorry your having to go thru this Crying or Very sad

All I can tell you from my experience with my xp is that for every step I took forward getting him to stop behaviors he took 10 steps forwards to stomp on my one step....I Know you and your daughter are within your rights to live where you do BUT,,,,He is NOT IN HIS RIGHT MIND....which sets up a whole different sereno....ask yourself if once you get the alarm to stop(however you do) what if flying bullets take it's place? Think about this...I'm sorry to scare you but this is a very real possibility when dealing with a NUT!
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femfree · Site Admin Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 667

Have any of the other neighbours been complaining about him. I would think the very annoying car alarm going off precisely when you're there to jump to his 'tune' would come to their attention as well.

It's always so much better, I think, to have validation from other people. Even NPs can't stand up to a united front.

A six foot fence!! Hooray for you.

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femfree · Site Admin Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 667

I know how anoying this is. What I'm sitting here thinking is that if you file that restraining order, he will just say "Look, even if my car alarm goes off this woman files a harassment charge against me. She's using the courts to harass me. She's always accusing me of something. I need help in making her stop. She's the one harassing me!!"

Most NPs have already thought out how they will react when abuse charges are filed against them so, I agree in this case that the police might be right here _ it could backfire on you. Watch your step.
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WindSong · Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 2:15 am Post subject:

I still say do not react as much as you can. Try not to jump if the starts with alarm thing again. Tell your daughter to not even look at him when he yells "run, run".
Fem is absoloutely right, he will try to turn this on you. "She's crazy filing charges against me, blah blah." They LOVE being the "poor and defenseless" victim. It's all in your head, I'm not doing anything wrong yadda yadda is what they say. They are in addition to being about every name in the book supply sucking assholes. The best reaction to them is not reaction.

I can't believe what he did with the fence guy. Just when you think you've heard it all...... BLAM.. another story here. Rolling Eyes

Hope it gets better soon!
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alamobelle3 · Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 615 Location: San antonio Texas

JJL - I am so sorry you are having to put up with this . Get the contractor to sign a notarized statement about his SLANDER against you
if he tries the poor victim thing - that would certainly help . Getting it now just in case while he still remembers what was said .

I hope the nightmare ends for you
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WindSong · Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 8:20 pm Post subject:

I wish that I could offer some helpful ideas that would end this for you and your daughter hon. I'm afraid I am at a loss. One thing that struck me is you said that you have cats.... DO NOT LET THEM OUTSIDE while this is going on. They are some mean and trifling bastards that they won't think anything of hurting animals. That is a hallmark symptom of a child in fact that they are going to end up a psychopath when they grow up. They hurt animals.

And remember to keep as much evidence as you can get a hold of. if you have a camcorder, tape the jerk. If they call and leave messages, keep the messages. Stuff like that.

I'm so sorry that this is happening to you guys. They are such jerks.

Take care and I'll be saying a prayer....
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