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sag07



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 537
Location: Elgin, IL
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 3:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Fraggle

Sorry to inform you but that's part of having a toxic relationship. If it's their ideal (leaving us) they drop us like a hot potato! But if you want to end the relationship, it's very, very very hard to get away from them! Here is a very good site that addresses this...

http://counsellingresource.com/quizzes/loser/index.html

It also list other traits in a toxic relationship that you might find interesting. In fact this is were my journey started when I started learning about controlling relationships...
Hope it helps...

Sag
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sag07



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 537
Location: Elgin, IL
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 3:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Fraggle

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for home - I changed my home number and mobile number within 2 months of him moving out, they are all unlisted numbers and only people I could trust completely where given these numbers. No more hangups to home.


OMG, I had to do the same thing! Guess we all do... Home phone, 2 cells numbers and work number to boot!


Sag
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fraggle_1972



Joined: 03 Mar 2007
Posts: 570
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 3:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
I know I just dont get this now...

But he is involved with other women (possbily living with one and stringing a few others along for what ever he can get).

Our r/ship ended Sept 05. Dont they keep him busy enough? or is it cause I told him to drop dead?

What the fixation with moi?

Thanks for the web links, have book marked them and will have a look when no so busy.
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sag07



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 537
Location: Elgin, IL
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 4:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Fraggle

It's all about NS. The more the better. You aren't a person with needs, wants. You are a object that can give (so he thinks) NS, plus you dump him and That hurt their Narcissistic pride (NP) and they hate that. How dare you D&D me! Is how he is feeling, in fact if you two (please don't) get back to together he might dump you just to teach you a lesson...

Just my 2 cents, SAG
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fraggle_1972



Joined: 03 Mar 2007
Posts: 570
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 4:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
NEVER EVER going back.

I like being single for now.

would like to find the one eventually, but starting to think he is not out there or maybe it is just meant to be me and my girl. Men dont approach me anyway and I am abitt old fashioned, that is the mans job.

received over 100 texts from him 1 day begging me to take him back. Add weight to his restraining order.
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sag07



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 537
Location: Elgin, IL
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 4:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
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NEVER EVER going back.


Best new I even heard! Good for you!

Sag
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sag07



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 537
Location: Elgin, IL
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 4:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Fraggle

I would like to leave you one more site for you to review, it's help me many times and the forum allow you to leave a question and The Dr. is very good at getting back to us. Hope it help, and please take care of your daughter and yourself. This nightmare does end but it takes time and work. Someone once posted this and I never forgot it.. "doesn't is easy with a NPD, is it?"..

Sag

http://counsellingresource.com/features/archives/2006/relationships/loser-more-replies/
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samvaknin
Site Admin


Joined: 15 Feb 2007
Posts: 2289
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 12:04 pm    Post subject: Narcissists as stalkers Reply with quote
Many narcissists are stalkers - click on these links:

How to Cope with Stalkers and Paranoids

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse18.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse15.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse16.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily14.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily16.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily17.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/abusefamily18.html

Regarding suicide - these may be of help - click on the links:

http://samvak.tripod.com/journal76.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/journal95.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq72.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq33.html

Take care.

Sam
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fraggle_1972



Joined: 03 Mar 2007
Posts: 570
PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 12:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Thanks for the weblinks Sam.

What does one do when law enforcement will not enforce a restraining order, its not worth the paper it is printed on?

Doesnt that just add to the N that they are above everyone else, can get away with anything?
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