Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

sagitta · Joined: 06 Mar 2007 Posts: 16

Hi guys, something scary happened 2day

My x is 1 of 2 people I'm scared of. I ended the relationship since and hv avoided contact apart from a couple of yrs ago although he lives a couple of streets away. I agreed 2 meet him 4 a drink, during which I ws genuinely persuaded that he wanted 2 be friendly and civil. Up 2 that point I hd been ignoring him if I passed in street.

About a yr ago I did a talk using a different name. He found out and turned up with a crony and talked loudly even if it ws complimentary then left halfway thru without buying anything. At that point I realised so much 4 being civil. Ysday I sw someone I thought ws him so I crossed the street. Last night the window ws egged. I know it ws definitely kids but it just made me feel so nervous. 2day he walked up behind me in street and walked past, then I realised it was him ysday. Knowing him I think he probably did it on purpose and wasn't just coincidental.

He always hs 2 be in control of others, no matter what. He ws never physically violent during the relationship but he ws very manipulative and I did see him blow up on occasion and it ws scary. U always had the sense that he was always trying 2 supercontrol himself.

Not sure if I shd be worried lol Confused

lemondroppr · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 1416

Only time will tell if he's actively trying to contact you or if things are just a coincidence. I wouldn't put it past a P to have egged the window. They can do some pretty childish things. I guess I would be careful, that's my advice. Yes, make sure your home is secure and be careful with emails and phone calls. NC can help keep you safe.