Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

littlecat2 · Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 5:46 pm Post subject: ~ IN SHOCK! ~

Hi all ... well, I really hope this is an encouragement to you all who are still locked in the crazy N relationship. After 40 years, I divorced my N/H. For a few years afterwards, I believed my oldest daughter (who is most like her Dad and quiet) felt I'd been unfair to him. Well, this weekend she and her family were here with me and she and I had some unbelievable conversations. I'm not sure what is taking place when he is visiting them, but ..... she sure has seen the light. It is unbelievable to me and I cannot describe how good it feels to know that she at least understands, and now that her Dad and I are divorced she is seeing some very ugly sides of him. She actually told me she enjoys "annoying" him telling him how well I'm doing, trips I'm taking, etc. This will be a wonderful Christmas just knowing she gets it and realizes more of what actually happened and why. I couldn't have a better gift.
abby
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Cookie2 · Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1395

Abby....I am SOOOOOOO happy for you.....I know how this feels......6mo past my divorce being final we got the police paper work telling us that p had the cops come to the house(he didnt know they were comming) His new live in had locked herself in a room(sounds all too familiar to me) and called the cops cause he was beating her up....the cops could hear him screaming at her thru the door(again sounds all too familiar to me)It said the cops told her to leave....checked for guns and booze and didnt see any......the next day she called the cops again for an escort back into his house to get her things.......I had gotten a police escort when I got my things out and each time the cops were called by her they sent more and more.......I ALWAYS knew this man was violent......knew he beat me up.......was pretty certain I was not the one who caused him to do it.....but this gave me proof that I wasnt........I tell ya....the smile stayed on my face for a long long time as it will yours........Merry Christmas Abby!
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I have a photographic memory....I just don't have same day service.....................Cookie

littlecat2 · Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 2:22 am Post subject:

And a wonderful Christmas to you, too, Cookie. Sounds like you're well rid of you X/N. I don't think some of us realize just how dangerous, emotionally and physically, these N's are. I'm glad you made it out.
Take care, friend ....
abby
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