Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

Lukky · Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 2407

Myyyyyy ohhhh myyyy I have entered a new plain here!!! I clicked on 'Anything Goes' and found myself thinking "Ohhhhhhh Wow!!! look at all the new topics,,,,, how exciting!!!" Quickly realised I was in the wrong area,,,,, but hey!!!!

Ok,,,,, here goes I am a major player in the P section of 'anything goes' and I accidently clicked here and have decided to take a risk and start a thread....
Always think impulsive decisions get us by sometimes!!! (or cause absolute disaster!!!)

My impulsive decisions have always kind of got me in trouble by the way!!!

Ok lets start here.... One of my worst impulsive decisions (other than taking on 'IT'... pet name for ExN) was to leave my home Country!!!!

I was 16 at the time and decided I needed to spread my wings and leave home!!! Not just up the Street!!! Leave the Country and OMG did I learn real quick other Countries don't solve ya problems!!! Infact they make them worse!!!! Had loads of fun but ohhhhhhhh not so loads of fun...LOL
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thayilflies · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 488

I've made two major fashion blunders. I died my hair jet-black on one occasion and a year or two later I got my ear pierced twice. Luckily my job didn't allow the piercings so that one was nipped in the bud. Might I add two very unpopular decisions with the NF (I was at school at the time).

One decision I made which I don't necessarily consider impulsive even though the family did was to suddenly and unexpectedly defer university and go on a working holiday. At the time this was a major breakthrough and was possibly the first time I made a decision for myself alone. A decision met with great resistance. So sometimes it is a fine line between impulsivity and taking a well calculated risk.

Nolongerhisvictim · Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 1380

My most impulsive thing was getting involved with P. I knew in my head I shouldn't but I let my heart lead the way for me....I'll never do that again!!!!
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Cookie2 · Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1378

Hey Lukky????That you????LOL Mine would need to be leaving the best job ever had...one that would have had me retired with good benefits by now.....I always followed my oldest sister and that is why I left...because she did...We both went to a better place but I hated it and she loved it.....and marrying the p.....He was soooo quick to ask....so pushy....Wish I'd have known better then! Good thinking Lukky(Lurkys lost again lol.....let hope she knows her way home again)
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Cookie2 · Joined: 28 Feb 2007 Posts: 1378

Guess we need to leave her something tilda Laughing

Actually I'm glad to see her take the initiative to post on the npd board.....I give her credit....I often want to and I know I have dealt with many an n so I'd have the right to.......Just need a push! Rolling Eyes

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Lukky · Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 2407

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!! I forgot I had posted this down here!!! Sorry Gals I got meself a little lost again!! LOL...

Don't look down here so much as scared someone might call me Lurky...LOL... though should be used to it by now huhhhhhh!!!!,,, I mean heck I've inherited a lot of different names since then...>LOL

Matilda speaking of hairdressing disaters!!! Once when I was a teenager I had this 'Bad Taste' party to go to!! Well I decided to go as a Punk Rocker as back then that was seen as bad taste.

Well anyway I asked my Mum for some money for these new funky wash out rinces for my hair and she said No!!! She didn't have the money for them so I tried to think of some alternative!!

I am blond right so keep this in mind!! I decided to use concentrated food colouring on my hair!! One side I did green and the other red!! Looked great for the party!! Funny thing is, it didn't wash out the next morning or the morning after that !!!

I had red and green hair for a number of weeks actually and my cruel Narcissistic Mum made me go to school with that hair!!! Actually she's not that at all...LOL I have a great Mum but her punishment that time was a learning curve in my impulsivity,,, ALWAYS read the label!!! LOL
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OxDrover · Joined: 13 May 2007 Posts: 1465 Location: Arkansas USA

Every impulsive decision I ever made I think was a disaster of one proportion or another--some like your food-coloring hair disaster that give you pause, but eventually wear out and do no lasting harm, to twice when I spread my legs without adequate birth control! Exclamation

Sorry about that, I could'nt resist! Embarassed

(bad me!)

See, Lukky, your twisted sense of humor is rubbing off on me (hey, you are so great to place blame on! If you weren't here I'd have to blame Cookie or Tilda! or Wahela--anyone except myself!)

Seriously,

The old saying of "marry in haste, repent at leisure" can just about cover any situation where you replace the word "marry" with any number of words or phrases.

I try my best not to make "decisions" more complex than "what to eat tonight" when I am emotionally involved. Sometimes that is difficult, but no matter what it is, I like to "sleep on it" a few times and reassess my own motives, as well as the "best outcome" and the "worst outcome" i.e. the risk (or cost) vs benefit (reward) ratio. Also what is the "likelyhood" of any event happening is.

Thanks for the thread Lukky!
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