Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

jiggy7928 · Joined: 24 Mar 2008 Posts: 8

Hello my name is James. I just found out about this disorder or mental illness, whatever it may be.

I feel like no one has met a person like my dad. He's absolutely insane. I grew up in a house of verbal and physical abuse by my dad. My mother was physically abuse and I was too by my dad. He's a smoother talker and can attract anyone's attention to believe the words that come out of his mouth. And he also talks about people behind their back including myself and my mom. Pretty sad I think

There were times where he acted like he forgot the events that he had with me and told me that my mother put me up to it to tell lies to the police and so on.

Also my family members on my dad side just told my sister that when he was at his mother's house( usually all the kids of the family, grandchildren and so on will come on Sunday for a gather, every single Sunday throughout the year, I'm not joking either) that they felt very uncomfortable around him when he was there. He would just constantly talk and you would have to be careful what words you say because he would argue with you and you couldn't win any arguments.

Also he has the negative energy you can feel from him when he's in his insanity mode! It's pretty frightening. I know one time my mother when she was still married to my dad, she had went to the police station and pressed charges against my dad. While she was there, a social worker was their beside my mother and called my dad to tell him that your wife is scared for her life, when my dad heard that he said "Thank you" then hanged up the phone. The social worker hanged up the phone and immediately looked at my mother while her face turned white and she said that man is crazy!

Just recently my dad has gotten into trouble with the law. He's being charged with 6 accounts of child molestation. He raped my half sister. He had custody of his two daughters which were my half sisters. He's looking to 30 years to life in prison.

I just hoped that he goes to jail and not lie his way out of it because he's very good at putting on a mask where people can't detect him for who he really is. Also I just did a little research just now and find out he's a compulsive talkers..he just doesn't know when to shut up and like I said before if you say something offensive...boy you're in for it.

jiggy7928 · Joined: 24 Mar 2008 Posts: 8

Well I just wanted to updated on my dad. He took the plea of doing 20 years in prison from the judge. So he'll be doing 20 years in prison. So that's closure in my life of not having to deal with him for the next 20 years or less depending on if he'll make it out of their alive because of his charges of incest and child molestation/rape.

I hope all of you will have closure in life in the near future of those in your life who is giving you much grief. I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

James