I’m new here and have been reading, cutting and pasting into the wee hours. It helps so much just to know there are people who have been there and survived. We all know only too well how evil people can hurt others; it makes me feel rejuvenated to see good people helping and empowering one another.
If only I’d discovered this forum a few years ago! I have so many questions, but you've already helped me on so many practical issues.
Thanks again, Pryce (divorced from N 1 1/2 years; grew up w/sister with p.d. probably of same cluster)

