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Sam Vaknin is the author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" and 8 other books about personality disorders and abuse in relationships with narcissists and psychopaths. He is the owner and moderator of support forums and the first person to have written about the Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD) online (in 1997). He invented many of the terms currently used to describe the disorder and its effects on family, the workplace, and in various professions.

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guilt

Postby afraid of tomorrow » Mon Oct 06, 2014 12:43 am

I am having a hard time convincing myself that it's OK to let him go. I feel an enormous amount of guilt. I shouldn't. He cheated on me numerous times, he constantly made me feel like I was worthless and crazy. He's in jail Bc he busted every window out of my house and hit me. I still love him and forgiving him has become 2nd nature. I'm also afraid that when he gets out he's going to pull on this "invisible leash" and I'll run back. I don't want to Bc while he's been gone I see how horribly I was treated but I'm feeling like he has no one else. Please give me any advice you can
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Re: guilt

Postby samvaknin » Sat Oct 18, 2014 12:24 pm

These may be of help:

The Guilt of Others - The Narcissist Shifts the Blame and Guilt to Others

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq21.html

I miss him so much - I want him back!

https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/nar ... sages/4934

Narcissists and Personality disordered Mates, Spouses, and Partners

https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/nar ... sages/5013

Projection and Projective Identification - Abuser in Denial

https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/nar ... sages/5002

Approach-Avoidance Repetition Complex and Fear of Intimacy

https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/nar ... sages/5000

Guilt? What guilt?

https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/nar ... sages/4931

Narcissists, psychopaths, ***, and marital fidelity

https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/nar ... sages/4920

The Narcissist or Psychopath Hates your Independence and Personal Autonomy

https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/nar ... sages/4959
Encyclopedia of Narcissism and Psychopathy:

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/siteindex.html

Buy 16 books or 3 video DVDs about narcissists, psychopaths, and abusive relationships - click on this link:

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html
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