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sallyishere



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 5:12 pm    Post subject: Good Article: So you think your special Reply with quote

Edited to provide credit to website:

http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/special.shtml

and to comply with copyright rules.

You Think That You Are So Special...
Edited by Tavia
written by Annesthesia
(In memory of the machinations of a borderline controller, with condolences to all the other women who came before (and will come after), and once thought THEY were special too...)
updated Sept, 2001

You Think That You Are So Special.... . . that it won't happen to you. He'll be different with you. You two have a "connection," a rapport that he didn't have with his ex. You have more things in common, similar personalities. He's pointed out all the ways that you two are so alike - it's just uncanny. You are so lucky to have met him at this point in your life. He says that he really appreciates you for who you are - and he's the first person to really do that, isn't he? Sure, he said the same things to *her* when he got together with her (and then grew to hate so many things about her), but it's different with you. He couldn't possibly be operating from scripts anymore. And it's so nice to finally have someone YOU can lean on, isn't it?

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Starsilver



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This ought to have a place to go so others can see it. Is there a section for good articles and quotes?

On a board I found early on for those in break ups they had a "gold posts" section where people could nominate really good posts that would help others.
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Starsilver



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

AH I see it now. Inspirations.

Still think a Gold Posts section would be good.
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lemondroppr



Joined: 10 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sally, I can move this down to Inspirations or anywhere appropriate, if you want me to. Let me/us know.

Thanks for posting this, btw. Great read.
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 7:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sally,

Wow! If this post doesn't clear the Nfog right up, nothing will.
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sallyishere



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 7:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes sure you can post it whereever. I didnt write it Smile ...its from the Heartless Bitches Website.

Sally
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