I have this book and it supports NC perfectly, helps with grieving, recovering from rejection, obsessive behaviour plus many more, its an easy and quick read, small book, and imho, is essential reading, it can also help the male abuse survivors here too.
http://www.rhondafindling.com/dctmbook.htm
A Survival Guide to Letting Go
By Rhonda Findling - Psychotherapist - www.rhondafindling.com
Excerpt.....
Are you compulsively calling your ex-boyfriend or obsessing about him? My book, "Don't Call That Man!" teaches you how to contain your feelings of desperation and neediness and let go of a painful relationship. "Don't Call That Man!" teaches you how to break out of the compulsive cycle of calling him over and over, and how to stop clinging to him when your feelings aren't reciprocated.
