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Do i seem narcissistic to you?

Sam Vaknin is the author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" and 8 other books about personality disorders and abuse in relationships with narcissists and psychopaths. He is the owner and moderator of support forums and the first person to have written about the Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD) online (in 1997). He invented many of the terms currently used to describe the disorder and its effects on family, the workplace, and in various professions.

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Do i seem narcissistic to you?

Postby VTheChaosTheoryV on Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:17 pm

i have been seeing a therapist but he has no answers, hes useless. i could go on and on about myself but im going to cut to the important part. i do have traits of a narcissist, in fact the biggest part is lack of empathy. i am obsessed with myself and how others perceive me as far as looks go and physique (Somatic type?). i do not love my parents or any of my family or my girlfriend. i questioned myself, "do i love them?" i literally felt empty, i felt nothing towards them. then i started to question myself what if my dad died? the only thing i thought of was that i hope he has me in his will. i do have fantasies about power and finding the perfect one for me. with my current girlfriend im only using for certain needs of mine, but she doesn't know that part. all she knows is that im funny, charming, and smart, and she says "i love you", but i don't love her at all, i just am attracted to her looks and thats it. but my main concern here other than having traits of narcissism, is that lack of emotional connection i have that i realized when talking to my therapist. i don't feel bad about it, in fact i feel glorified that im not weak and im the way i am. but what im asking of you is an opinion, do you think i might fit the narcissistic diagnosis?
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