Dating 101: Will Your Guy Cheat on You?
Cheat Predictor #1
Was he spoiled as a kid?
oh, and how.
Do his parents tend to baby him and help him out of financial jams?
yep, I don't believe i've ever encountered a bigger man-boy-pig then he.
Has he ever bragged about cheating on an exam or paying someone to write a paper for him in college?
well, he bragged about how his parents called him and treated him like "a little prince" when he was small, and brags about how he "always wins" and "always gets what he wants", said "I never think anything I do is wrong", and said "yes, this is all about me, this whole day is about me." And basically, it was "so enough about me, let's talk about me!"
He's not in the slightest narcissistic at all!
If your man seems to have sailed through life without ever hitting the rough waters that rock the rest of us, beware. Privileged chaps tend to suffer from a sense of entitlement (read: bratty-boy syndrome), so he may believe that the rules don't apply to him. He's so used to getting what he wants, why should he stop now?
"He might cheat because he thinks he deserves to fulfill all of his needs, no matter who he might hurt," says Shirley Glass, Ph.D., a psychologist, infidelity expert and author of the forthcoming "Not Just Friends: Protecting Your Relationship from Infidelity and Healing from the Trauma of Betrayal."
"He probably has little concept of how upset you would be if you found out because he's too self-centered to think about your feelings."
yea, no kidding. What .. you mean .. you have feelings too? how is that possible?
So how do you know if your have-it-all hunk has other women on his wish list? Glass suggests paying attention to how he copes when he's confronted with any bad behavior on his part. Does he regret getting caught forwarding your racy emails to his friends but feel no guilt for doing it in the first place? Does he blame others when he screws up rather than take responsibility himself? If he can't see how his actions affect others, he's not likely to say, "Whoa, what about my girlfriend?" when temptation strikes.
what, you mean I have a girlfriend? oh yea, her, I almost forgot about her, lol! you mean that woman who cooks and cleans? I thought she was the maid!
oh yea, bratty boy syndrome, and the boundless entitlement. If only it were that simple.
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