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cangel
Joined: 24 Feb 2007
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Dagna and Trinity - I agree with you both!
Nancy I am so sorry that I mentioned lace....frankly anything that makes you feel special and inspires confidence is perfect......Calvin Klein does do comfortable and sexy.
You are going to be great, wear something that reflects who you are and something that makes you feel good about yourself. That is what matters that you reflect how wonderful you are....
Personally, the makeup thing is tricky at best if you don't wear it all the time. (I don't wear much either and always worry I look like I am playing dress up when I do). Mascara and a bit of lip color is more than enough!
Relax.....you have all the substance behind you, you are real he is the shell.
By the way...I play violin too so get the no-nails thing.
Cangel
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vmm
Joined: 07 Aug 2007
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| NancyCT wrote: | | and was just awarded a pretty hefty contract today. I know because the customer sent it to my email by mistake. |
Take this email and make sure your attny has a copy of it before court. Is N insisted "no recording in the office" Is N sneaking around stealing form the business? Is he hiding income from the court for child support? Until N signs the agreement your attny prepared for N as sole owner of the business, half this contract is yours as co owner of the business. Also half the liability if the business were you to be sued.
I would also ask for copies of all correspondence of the business, because you are still co owner, and half the money from all these new transactions is still yours, as co owner of the business. N requested no recording of his activities, ?stole the business assets?, without signing the contract to purchase the business from you.
Most businesses have security cameras installed to make sure employees don't steal from the company. I'd be requesting these be installed until N signs that he has bought the buiness.
Now you need paperwork from the new contracts as those receipts are still a 50/50 split. If you ask your attny to supena any new business
activity and any new contracts. N will claim "it was all his work" . You will
remind cort that you kept the business going working 12 hours for months when N abbandoned it for ? months.
Now the value of the business has increased by the new contrats. Is it time to have the business revalued before N buys you out.
I might also call the business evaluator on the carpet, for his one sided
assesment of business not having value.
| NancyCT wrote: | | My lawyer thinks it was just a temper tantrum when things weren't going his way, and we have to be careful not to make him feel backed into a corner right now before we get his signature on the agreement. |
IMHO, I think your attny is saying this to cover his azz for not getting N's
signature and advising you to leave N unatteneded in the office for so long and discouraging your request to record the last meeting.
N pretended to think the buyout for the business would count as child support.
| NancyCT wrote: | | The only time I've ever been in court before was to support the N when he had to appear on charges of domestic violence toward me. ...Later, he actually accused me of going with him for some underhanded reason |
Think long and hard about this. You had your stregnth at the first meeting...you brought the tape recorder. You were totally justified, but the attornys split you into 2 rooms to "negotiate" with no written record. Both attnys and N know everything N actually said that day, you only know how they decided to interpret it to you hidden of in another room "out of the conversation". What did you actually gain from the last meeting?
| NancyCT wrote: | | My lawyer said I only needed the financial affidavit I filled out when I filed. Is there anything else I should have ready? Questions I should prepared to answer? |
Questions you want answers to? What do you need from your attorney at this meeting?
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