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Computer Monitoring software?

 
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Thought-I-Was-Smarter



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Posts: 71
Location: Maryland

PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 9:35 pm    Post subject: Computer Monitoring software? Reply with quote

Does anyone know of any good computer monitoring software? My nbf is fairly computer saavy so I am looking for something that leaves no traces and hopefully that I could monitor remotely. I'm tired, tired, tired of being lied to and want to present him with his lies in black and white. Feel free to leave me a private message if you prefer. Thank so much.
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femfree



Joined: 11 Feb 2007
Posts: 665

PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 9:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't understand why you would want to get into an exchange about his lies. He'll only make up a bunch of new stories say you misunderstood or tell you he'll change - anythin to get you off his back.

Why not just leave? You know the truth so act on it. I know this doesn't answer your question about software, but isn't it decision time on your part?

Remember - they are pathological liars. Asking questions is inviting lies. Assume everything is a lie to avoid disappontment
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Lynnezer



Joined: 15 Feb 2007
Posts: 534

PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 10:40 pm    Post subject: Re: Computer Monitoring software? Reply with quote

Thought-I-Was-Smarter wrote:
Does anyone know of any good computer monitoring software? My nbf is fairly computer saavy so I am looking for something that leaves no traces and hopefully that I could monitor remotely. I'm tired, tired, tired of being lied to and want to present him with his lies in black and white. Feel free to leave me a private message if you prefer. Thank so much.


You can present him with all the black and white truth known to man and he will wiggle his way around it to the point that you will be mentally beat up once again.

Sad sad fact of what you are dealing with.

He'll take how you got the info and he won't bat an eye.

Waste of time!

Cool Lynnezer
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stillsmilen



Joined: 10 Feb 2007
Posts: 355

PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 10:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wink Not only will he wiggle his way out of it, but then he'll get an attitude with you, and turn everything around, and start ranting about how insecure, crazy, pathetic (you get the picture)... that YOU are!! Because you know how they turn everything around, especially when backed into a corner.

He will start a fight either verbal or physical, and nothing will be accomplished. Either he'll deny it (and call you crazy) or he'll admit to it and then rub it in your face, and find a way to blame you for his straying.

Hon, the best thing is to leave, and start living a N/P free life...
It's hard at first, but man is it awesome!!!

Cool stillsmilen

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kat



Joined: 18 Feb 2007
Posts: 114
Location: oklahoma city

PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

eblaster is your best bet
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