Psychopath and Narcissist Survivors Support Group

eyeswideopen · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 212

Deleteing this copy and pasted email so it is non-identifying... thanks for the help PL.
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"The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?"
Kahlil Gibran

Pretty_Lady · Joined: 17 Feb 2007 Posts: 554

Hi eyeswideopen,
Firstable, you do not have to reply right away. Wait till some kind of an answer comes to you. I do not think you own her any answer one way or the other. But if your sister has been nice to you then you might want to tell her that you will deal with the situation when it's best for you and she should stay out of it. Your sister really should stay out of it. Even writing to you shows that she really does not. Tell her any questions regarding to you should be directed to you and if the connections are cut then there is a big reason for it. Try not to explain to much. It is what it is. Bottom line, "Sister stay out of it."
My opinion. Hope this helps eyeswideopen. Stick to your guns. Remember you are your first priority.
PL
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The way out is through the door you came in.
R.D. Laing

eyeswideopen · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 212

Thanks PL..

Same thing here... Deleting a copy and pasted email for privacy reasons.
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"The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?"
Kahlil Gibran

Pretty_Lady · Joined: 17 Feb 2007 Posts: 554

That sounds reasonable. Look like your sister has been nice to you. Make sure she knows that you do not want to loose her and how much you love and trust her.
Probably she has not realized how evil your parents are. She is just doing this for once so she did not tell herself she did not try. Probably she feels pressured too. So, it's good that you tell her how you want her to not take any part in this.
You can tell her all of these and let go. You do not know what her future holds and where she will be with her relationship with your parents. But for now, tell her you love her (which you did already.)

It will be okay. Lets trust the Universe that every thing will work out in perfect order.
(((((( eyeswideopen ))))))))) You are doing good!!! You become stronger with each bump on the road.

PL
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The way out is through the door you came in.
R.D. Laing

eyeswideopen · Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 212

Thank you, thank you, thank you PL!
<3 Eyes
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"The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?"
Kahlil Gibran

Pretty_Lady · Joined: 17 Feb 2007 Posts: 554

You are welcome eyeswideopen!!! Take care of you.
PL
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The way out is through the door you came in.
R.D. Laing