I found this site when I was researching and understanding DV after I left my ex.

http://www.bullyonline.org/

It is extremely comprehensive, and their section on the difference between paranoia and hypervigilance was especially useful to me.

http://www.bullyonline.org/stress/ptsd.htm

I know of a few others who could use it and am forwarding it.

Another thing...
You responded to a few of my prior posts under "Old Habits Die Hard." The thread was recently removed because my N ex found me online. Anyway, he was banned and I'm still here. Just wanted to thank you again for those responses.

Hope you're doing ok...