Sam Vaknin is the author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" and 8 other books about personality disorders and abuse in relationships with narcissists and psychopaths. He is the owner and moderator of support forums and the first person to have written about the Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD) online (in 1997). He invented many of the terms currently used to describe the disorder and its effects on family, the workplace, and in various professions.
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by louxloux » Wed Nov 18, 2009 12:17 am
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- Please DO NOT RESPOND to questions on this forum
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- personal accountability
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- Can a N/P "change" without getting any therapy or support?
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- A few questions..
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- N's seeking help??
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- At what age?
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- Is he Psychopathic?
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- Do i seem narcissistic to you?
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- Have I damaged my own children?
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- Narcassistic, Psychopathic behaviors
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- How does my ExN feel now?
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- Why Dont Psychologists Speak Up?
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- I'm glad I found you Dr. Vaknin-help me with this!
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- Managing the elderly narcissistic mother
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- Why are you doing this?
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- cp or N??
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- Would giving in fuel the fire?
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- is this typical
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- Is a Narcisist aware he is an abuser?
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- Narcistic injury
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- Narcissism and Online mass gaming
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- Dr Vaknin- Do you still consider yourself a Narcissist?
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- what is wrong with me?
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- What is the natural history of Narcissism?
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